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Hello, I’m the Dad Starting Over.

I’m  a divorced father of three kids who had his life turned upside-down when his wife had an affair and filed for divorce.

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Hello, I’m the Dad Starting Over.

I’m  a divorced father of three kids who had his life turned upside-down when his wife had an affair and filed for divorce.


Over the past several years I have reprogrammed myself to become an overall happier and more successful dude. I've helped thousands of men do the same. Please feel free to read through my site and learn more about my philosophies and advice about relationships and this game we call "being a man in this crazy world".


I invite you to join our community of THOUSANDS of men just like you.

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Sept 15, 2020

I've read a lot of your stuff, joined the Fraternity and checked out the Facebook group discussions. It seems to me that your advice and the advice of just about everyone I talk to seems to be to leave my wife and break up my family. I can't do that. I've thought about it, talked to an attorney and came really really close to telling her that I'm filing... but I can't do it. I couldn't live with myself and the idea that I broke up our family. I couldn't live without seeing my kids every day.

Sept 10, 2020

Over the last 3 years, I have researched this topic extensively and I always seem to be drawn more to the male perspective of things.  I tend to find more value in the male perspective, as most female-driven research is littered with female empowerment and feminist propaganda...

Sept 4, 2020
“She told me she wants some time apart to think about things. She won’t return my texts. My son is asking where his mom went to. I want to fight for our marriage. I can’t give up on us. This all started when she went back to school. I think she’s having some kind of crisis.
Aug 25, 2020

Needy behavior. It's anti-sexy. It's the opposite of what a woman wants. It's the opposite of independent.

Aug 17, 2020
A friend of mine sent me a link to your book (The Dead Bedroom Fix) and he said that he thought I might like it. After reading it I realize that I’ve been the Provider guy and so was my friend. I knew he was going through some changes, but I just joked with him about having a mid-life crisis. He told me that his life has never been better and he’s banging his wife like they did back when they started dating
LATEST PODCASTS
Sept 8, 2020
Russell, a reader of The Dead Bedroom Fix, has a wife of seven years who one day surprised him with "I want a divorce". She's been back and forth several times.. one day saying she's done, the next saying she wants to work things out. This story should sound familiar to many of you.
Sept 7, 2020
In this episode, I tackle some recent emails that readers have sent in. These types of questions are VERY common.
Sept 7, 2020
Neediness is the source of so much pain and anguish when it comes to personal relationships.
Aug 21, 2020
This is an actual one-on-one coaching session with "Matt", a reader of "The Dead Bedroom Fix".  Matt's first session is not typical of readers of the DB Fix. He jumps over the topic of "having more sex with my wife" and dives right into a much deeper discussion. "I just don't know what to do with my life.
Aug 5, 2020
This is an actual one-on-one coaching session with "Dave", a reader of The Dead Bedroom Fix. Unfortunately, Dave was told five months ago that his wife wanted to end their relationship of 22 years.
Aug 5, 2020
In this episode, I look at one woman's online account of how her marriage ended in her affair and subsequent divorce. 
Aug 3, 2020
Cheating wives all have a VERY similar set of behavior. I've heard hundreds of stories from men all over the world. Here are the seven most common things that cheating wives do.
ABOUT ME

Hi there, I’m the DSO (Dad Starting Over).  My story is not an unusual one. For those who just stumbled upon this site by chance and have no connection to the subject matter… it may seem a bit “out there”. Trust me… it’s common. For the rest of us, you came here for a reason: You need to hit the restart button on life and redefine what it means to be a MAN in today’s world. You need a boost up over the wall and you’re scrambling for any little nugget of wisdom that will help you climb that extra inch.

Why a restart? Well, maybe life just kicked you in the teeth. If you’re like me and millions of other grown men all over the world… you were  told “I want a divorce”, or worse… you discovered infidelity. Your entire worldview has changed. Your head is spinning. What you thought was innocent and comfortable is now twisted and scary. Welcome to the real world, my friend. I’ve been there and done that.

My philosophies and advice are not cookie-cutter. They’re not politically correct. They’re not always nice. But.. they work. They make sense. They get results.

Want to know more about me? A great place to start is here:

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