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Hello, I’m the Dad Starting Over.

I’m  a divorced father of three kids who had his life turned upside-down when my wife had an affair and filed for divorce.

I invite you to join our community of THOUSANDS of men just like you. 

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Hello, I’m the Dad Starting Over.

I’m  a divorced father of three kids who had his life turned upside-down when his wife had an affair and filed for divorce.


Over the past several years I have reprogrammed myself to become an overall happier and more successful dude. I've helped thousands of men do the same. Please feel free to read through my site and learn more about my philosophies and advice about relationships and this game we call "being a man in this crazy world".


I invite you to join our community of THOUSANDS of men just like you.

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Jan 11, 2021
“My situation is a little different. My wife is on anti-depressants and has been for years. She’s always had huge problems with anxiety and this latest pandemic has pushed her over the edge. She has completely shut down, emotionally.”
Jan 08, 2021

I bought the Dead Bedroom Fix book back in December 2019. I gave it a full year to work. I was getting some mixed signals from the wife. Some days she would seem to be really into me, other days she would act like I didn’t exist.

Dec 31, 2020
The other day I was at the gym… doing what I usually do (wearing my mask, my big headphones, and staying away from other people) and I noticed… HER. New gal.
Dec 18, 2020

I read your book, The Dead Bedroom Fix, and I loved it. Probably my favorite “man” book that I own (and I have a huge library of self-help books at home… which may not be a good thing). I have one big problem with the book, though.

Dec 11, 2020

As far back as I can remember, talking over a class of peers when called on by the teacher was terrifying to me. Delivering some sort of presentation seemed like the worst punishment imaginable; sweating, shaking, and a lump in my throat so big that my airway would barely let out squeaks.

LATEST PODCASTS
Jan 21, 2021
Chris' story is not unique. He was in a very toxic (arguably abusive) relationship for years before having enough and leaving. Like most guys in his position, he brought the baggage from that relationship into his new one... and noticed things starting to going south. Chris read The Dead Bedroom Fix and joined the DSO Fraternity, and he flipped a switch in his brain. He didn't have to go on living like this. He's now back to his old attractive self that his previous marriage did such a good job of destroying... and his second relationship is better than ever.
Jan 20, 2021
Mike and his wife had problems. Major problems. They barely touched each other for a solid two years. It wasn't until Mike read The Dead Bedroom Fix and then had a one-one-one session with DSO that he finally got up the nerve to say, "Enough is enough... I'm done". That's when things finally turned the corner for him.
Jan 10, 2021
It's time I brought Mrs. DSO onto the podcast. We talk about her background, her first marriage, divorce, how we met, how our marriage works... and a really big announcement!
Jan 09, 2021
Here is a sample of one of our hour-long DSO Fraternity meetings. In this meeting, we discussed being an entrepreneur and my own personal journey starting up dadstartingover.com.
Dec 09, 2020
Just because a dude is a real-life Pyschiatrist doesn't mean he can't have typical "nice guy" marriage problems and a dead bedroom. Listen to Dr. Nick's story about what brought him to Dad Starting Over and his experience after joining the DSO Fraternity. Great stuff!
Nov 09, 2020
Now THIS is what you call "an interesting story". Wow. Listen to Scott's story and how he went from a dirt poor kid in the bayou... in and out of jail... homeless... to losing 200 pounds, turning his life around completely... and now part of the the Dad Starting Over family.
Dec 07, 2020
When fresh out of divorce... a lot of men exhibit very erratic behavior and they want to jump right into another relationship to "heal" their pain. Let's talk about it.
ABOUT ME

Hi there, I’m the DSO (Dad Starting Over).  My story is not an unusual one. For those who just stumbled upon this site by chance and have no connection to the subject matter… it may seem a bit “out there”. Trust me… it’s common. For the rest of us, you came here for a reason: You need to hit the restart button on life and redefine what it means to be a MAN in today’s world. You need a boost up over the wall and you’re scrambling for any little nugget of wisdom that will help you climb that extra inch.

Why a restart? Well, maybe life just kicked you in the teeth. If you’re like me and millions of other grown men all over the world… you were  told “I want a divorce”, or worse… you discovered infidelity. Your entire worldview has changed. Your head is spinning. What you thought was innocent and comfortable is now twisted and scary. Welcome to the real world, my friend. I’ve been there and done that.

My philosophies and advice are not cookie-cutter. They’re not politically correct. They’re not always nice. But.. they work. They make sense. They get results.

Want to know more about me? A great place to start is here:

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