Hello, I’m the Dad Starting Over.

I’m  a divorced father of three kids who had his life turned upside-down when his wife had an affair and filed for divorce.

Over the past several years I have reprogrammed myself to become an overall happier and more successful dude. I’ve helped dozens of men do the same. Please feel free to read through my site and learn more about my philosophies and advice about relationships and this game we call “being a man in this crazy world”.

The first book by yours truly is now available for download on amazon.com!

It’s not the longest work of literature known to man, but I did put a great deal of time boiling the content down into the simple stuff every guy SHOULD know already, but hardly anyone puts into practice.

I consider this book to be the prescription for what every man should do to keep his wife jumping his bones.

Do this, and you get laid more. It’s that simple.

Do me favor? Check it out. If you like it…let other guys know. My success and happiness truly comes from helping out dudes just like you, and selling books and consultations allows me to set aside time to do so. It’s not my full-time job, but it is my passion.

I have also created a simple website to promote the book: www.deadbedroomfix.com.

Hello, I’m the Dad Starting Over.

I’m  a divorced father of three kids who had his life turned upside-down when his wife had an affair and filed for divorce.

Over the past several years I have reprogrammed myself to become an overall happier and more successful dude. I’ve helped dozens of men do the same. Please feel free to read through my site and learn more about my philosophies and advice about relationships and this game we call “being a man in this crazy world”.

LATEST ARTICLES

New Book! “The Dead Bedroom Fix”

The first book by yours truly is now available for download on amazon.com! It's not the longest work of literature known to man, but I did put a great deal of time boiling the content down into the simple stuff every guy SHOULD know already, but hardly anyone puts...

Kids

Kids

Romance killers come in many forms. One or both of you gets out of shape. Husband becomes a more agreeable pushover (more feminine). Wife becomes a more disagreeable tyrant (more masculine). Illness Stress One that everyone seems to overlook is, from my experience,...

You can’t trust yourself. Take time to heal.

You can’t trust yourself. Take time to heal.

While I was married to my first wife,  I used to cherish the rare moments I would get alone. During those quiet moments, I was able to re-calibrate and get a sense of self that I couldn't have with three screaming kids, a nagging wife and all that work. A day to just...

You can’t beat emotion. Stop trying.

You can’t beat emotion. Stop trying.

On this site, my most popular podcasts and articles are by far the ones dealing with Dead Bedrooms. The next most popular topics are about Infidelity. On the way more popular website Talk About Marriage, the two most popular "focused" topics are "Coping with...

MOST POPULAR ARTICLES

The Bedroom REBOOT

Ok... you're in a familiar predicament. You want your wife, sexually. Sure, she doesn't look like she used to. Sure, she nags you. Sure, she seems to be upset with life more often than not. But, dammit... she's your wife. You love her. You gave your word to her and...

Dissecting Dead Bedrooms

My own personal experience and that of thousands of other men who have been married and/or dated will tell you the same thing: If your woman is crazy about you, you will know it. She will leave zero doubt. She will shower you with praise. She will have her hands all...

Relationship NEEDS

When it comes to romantic, long-term relationships… what is a NEED, exactly? It’s a quality that must exist in order for the relationship to flourish and continue. Sounds simple enough, but it never ceases to amaze me just how much us men don’t understand the needs of...

ABOUT ME

Hi there, I’m the DSO (Dad Starting Over).  My story is not an unusual one. For those who just stumbled upon this site by chance and have no connection to the subject matter… it may seem a bit “out there”. Trust me… it’s common. For the rest of us, you came here for a reason: You need to hit the restart button on life and redefine what it means to be a MAN in today’s world. You need a boost up over the wall and you’re scrambling for any little nugget of wisdom that will help you climb that extra inch.

Why a restart? Well, maybe life just kicked you in the teeth. If you’re like me and thousands of other grown men… you were  told “I want a divorce”, or worse… you discovered infidelity. Your entire worldview has changed. Your head is spinning. What you thought was innocent and comfortable is now twisted and scary. Welcome to the real world, my friend. I’ve been there and done that.

My philosophies and advice are not cookie-cutter. They’re not politically correct. They’re not always nice. But.. they work. They make sense. They get results.

Want to know more about me? A great place to start is here:

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