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Hello, I’m the Dad Starting Over.

I’m  a divorced father of three kids who had his life turned upside-down when my wife had an affair and filed for divorce.

I invite you to join our community of THOUSANDS of men just like you. 

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Hello, I’m the Dad Starting Over.

I’m  a divorced father of three kids who had his life turned upside-down when his wife had an affair and filed for divorce.


Over the past several years I have reprogrammed myself to become an overall happier and more successful dude. I've helped thousands of men do the same. Please feel free to read through my site and learn more about my philosophies and advice about relationships and this game we call "being a man in this crazy world".


I invite you to join our community of THOUSANDS of men just like you.

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Nov 27, 2020

She will be into you. REALLY into you. She will shower you with praise. She will instantly recognize what buttons to push to make you a slobbering in-love doofus, and she will push those buttons with gusto. Repeatedly.

Nov 13, 2020
An essential exploration of why and how women's sexuality works - based on groundbreaking research and brain science - that will radically transform your sex life into one filled with confidence and joy.
Nov 6, 2020

I’ve been offering my counseling/coaching services in some form for several years now, and in that time I’ve learned one big thing: Wow, people sure are predictable creatures. I hear the same stories again and again. The good news is that men tend to take comfort in this familiarity.

Oct 21, 2020

Is it really necessary to look your best and get in great shape to turn women on? I ask because I know of somebody who has a lot of luck with women, and he’s in terrible shape. His personality is very outgoing and fun, but he’s a real mess physically. I think putting so much importance on fitness and looks is a bit misleading.

Oct 16, 2020
My wife and I have a good relationship after 15 years of marriage, demanding careers, and two kids.  We are both professionals and a business together.  A few years ago, I noticed her rolling over more at night.  We would have sex once a week on average, but I noticed her complaining during the act at times
LATEST PODCASTS
Nov 30, 2020
Our own Jack London (DSO Fraternity meeting host and coach) was a guest on the "Regular Infantry Guys" podcast promoting our website and the Fraternity.
Nov 30, 2020
Your cheating wife's behavior doesn't make sense? You got the "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" speech? Does she seem completely cold and detached from you ... and nothing you have done means anything to her? Let's dig into the topic of human nature and this all-too-common behavior.
Nov 20, 2020
We recently held a live DSO Fraternity meeting that was open to the public. If you missed it, you can listen to the recording here!
Nov 12, 2020
Jason is like a lot of my readers... he can pinpoint the moment his relationship started going off the rails... and his bedroom died. Listen to his story and see how he turned things around after reading The Dead Bedroom Fix and what obstacles are around the corner for him as he improves in life.
Nov 10, 2020
Marriage is a lot like college... it ain't for all of us.
Nov 09, 2020
Thomas is one of three coaches and meetings moderators with Dad Starting Over and the DSO Fraternity. His story, starting in high school, is the definition of UNIQUE. We can all learn from his tenacity and work ethic.
Oct 28, 2020
This is an actual one-on-one coaching session with "Matt", a reader of "The Dead Bedroom Fix".  Matt's first session is not typical of readers of the DB Fix. He jumps over the topic of "having more sex with my wife" and dives right into a much deeper discussion. "I just don't know what to do with my life.
ABOUT ME

Hi there, I’m the DSO (Dad Starting Over).  My story is not an unusual one. For those who just stumbled upon this site by chance and have no connection to the subject matter… it may seem a bit “out there”. Trust me… it’s common. For the rest of us, you came here for a reason: You need to hit the restart button on life and redefine what it means to be a MAN in today’s world. You need a boost up over the wall and you’re scrambling for any little nugget of wisdom that will help you climb that extra inch.

Why a restart? Well, maybe life just kicked you in the teeth. If you’re like me and millions of other grown men all over the world… you were  told “I want a divorce”, or worse… you discovered infidelity. Your entire worldview has changed. Your head is spinning. What you thought was innocent and comfortable is now twisted and scary. Welcome to the real world, my friend. I’ve been there and done that.

My philosophies and advice are not cookie-cutter. They’re not politically correct. They’re not always nice. But.. they work. They make sense. They get results.

Want to know more about me? A great place to start is here:

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