Hello, I’m the Dad Starting Over.

I’m  a divorced father of three kids who had his life turned upside-down when his wife had an affair and filed for divorce.

I invite you to join our community of THOUSANDS of men just like you. 

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Hello, I’m the Dad Starting Over.

I’m  a divorced father of three kids who had his life turned upside-down when his wife had an affair and filed for divorce.


Over the past several years I have reprogrammed myself to become an overall happier and more successful dude. I've helped thousands of men do the same. Please feel free to read through my site and learn more about my philosophies and advice about relationships and this game we call "being a man in this crazy world".


I invite you to join our community of THOUSANDS of men just like you.

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Aug 13, 2020

"Just finished Now What yesterday. I thought Dead Bedroom Fix was good, but this was even more of an eye-opener. Great stuff my man! Quick question, my wife and I are proceeding with divorce as she has no interest in reconciling which after listening to Now What that’s probably for the best as I have suspicions that she had some type of affair, emotional or physical I’m not yet sure."

Aug 6, 2020

“Dude, the other day she told me that she wished she never met me, and I was the worst person on the planet. All because I told her that we need to work on our relationship.”

She’s mentally ill.

Jul 30, 2020
I read your book, and it was really good but also really depressing. I realize now that I’m the provider and I always have been. I’ve never seen what it’s like to be the Lover. Ever. I was a virgin when I met my wife (she wasn’t).
Jul 24, 2020

How do I pursue STR's in a way that is good (both in the short and long term) for both myself and future partners. In a way that is consistent with integrity, and how I would want my hypothetical daughter to be treated?

Jul 7, 2020
Many of the men that I work with one-on-one have endured the terrible experience of discovering their wife’s affair. For a few of these men, the wife is over-the-top apologetic and doesn’t want to break up the family.
LATEST PODCASTS
Aug 5, 2020
This is an actual one-on-one coaching session with "Dave", a reader of The Dead Bedroom Fix. Unfortunately, Dave was told five months ago that his wife wanted to end their relationship of 22 years.
Aug 5, 2020
In this episode, I look at one woman's online account of how her marriage ended in her affair and subsequent divorce. 
Aug 3, 2020
Cheating wives all have a VERY similar set of behavior. I've heard hundreds of stories from men all over the world. Here are the seven most common things that cheating wives do.
Jul 8, 2020
Let's talk about that four-letter word: PORN
Jul 8, 2020
In this episode, I talk about what I think every woman should know about what it takes to be a "better wife". The key word is VALIDATION.
Jul 8, 2020
The fact that nobody seems to care about you and your predicament should be accepted... and a freeing concept.
Jul 8, 2020
What exactly is "Real Love"? How do you find it? How do you maintain it? Is it for everyone?
ABOUT ME

Hi there, I’m the DSO (Dad Starting Over).  My story is not an unusual one. For those who just stumbled upon this site by chance and have no connection to the subject matter… it may seem a bit “out there”. Trust me… it’s common. For the rest of us, you came here for a reason: You need to hit the restart button on life and redefine what it means to be a MAN in today’s world. You need a boost up over the wall and you’re scrambling for any little nugget of wisdom that will help you climb that extra inch.

Why a restart? Well, maybe life just kicked you in the teeth. If you’re like me and millions of other grown men all over the world… you were  told “I want a divorce”, or worse… you discovered infidelity. Your entire worldview has changed. Your head is spinning. What you thought was innocent and comfortable is now twisted and scary. Welcome to the real world, my friend. I’ve been there and done that.

My philosophies and advice are not cookie-cutter. They’re not politically correct. They’re not always nice. But.. they work. They make sense. They get results.

Want to know more about me? A great place to start is here:

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