GET THROUGH YOUR RUT AND BECOME A BETTER MAN.
I've read a lot of your stuff, joined the Fraternity and checked out the Facebook group discussions. It seems to me that your advice and the advice of just about everyone I talk to seems to be to leave my wife and break up my family. I can't do that. I've thought about it, talked to an attorney and came really really close to telling her that I'm filing... but I can't do it. I couldn't live with myself and the idea that I broke up our family. I couldn't live without seeing my kids every day.
Over the last 3 years, I have researched this topic extensively and I always seem to be drawn more to the male perspective of things. I tend to find more value in the male perspective, as most female-driven research is littered with female empowerment and feminist propaganda...
Hi there, I’m the DSO (Dad Starting Over). My story is not an unusual one. For those who just stumbled upon this site by chance and have no connection to the subject matter… it may seem a bit “out there”. Trust me… it’s common. For the rest of us, you came here for a reason: You need to hit the restart button on life and redefine what it means to be a MAN in today’s world. You need a boost up over the wall and you’re scrambling for any little nugget of wisdom that will help you climb that extra inch.
Why a restart? Well, maybe life just kicked you in the teeth. If you’re like me and millions of other grown men all over the world… you were told “I want a divorce”, or worse… you discovered infidelity. Your entire worldview has changed. Your head is spinning. What you thought was innocent and comfortable is now twisted and scary. Welcome to the real world, my friend. I’ve been there and done that.
My philosophies and advice are not cookie-cutter. They’re not politically correct. They’re not always nice. But.. they work. They make sense. They get results.
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