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The One That Got Away

The One That Got Away

Professional women want it all. The perfect family. The successful career. Perfect children. Respect from their peers. Adoration and appreciation from their family. Eternal youth. We ALL want it ALL, right? Well, yes, but we men tend to do a better job of...

Weakness

Weakness

The concept of "sucking it up" and "being a man" didn't just fall from the sky. They are axioms that have been passed down from generation to generation. They evolved naturally as a response to the community's needs and expectations. Men who have been around the block...

Stop Blaming The “Other Man”

Stop Blaming The “Other Man”

I find myself reading relationship-oriented forums and message boards. It's a good way for me to reply to dudes in need ... and also a good way to generate traffic to my website and possible book sales (just being honest). One thing you see when you frequent these...

My Testosterone Journey

My Testosterone Journey

I am on steroids. Really. I mean, if you want to be scientific about it... that's exactly what I and millions of other men in the world are taking on a regular basis. Steroids. Yes, it's perfectly legal. To be fair, I'm not on a "cycle" or a "stack" of anabolic drugs...

New Book! “The Dead Bedroom Fix”

New Book! “The Dead Bedroom Fix”

The first book by yours truly is now available for download on amazon.com! It's not the longest work of literature known to man, but I did put a great deal of time boiling the content down into the simple stuff every guy SHOULD know already, but hardly anyone puts...

Kids

Kids

Romance killers come in many forms. One or both of you gets out of shape. Husband becomes a more agreeable pushover (more feminine). Wife becomes a more disagreeable tyrant (more masculine). Illness Stress One that everyone seems to overlook is, from my experience,...

You can’t trust yourself. Take time to heal.

You can’t trust yourself. Take time to heal.

While I was married to my first wife,  I used to cherish the rare moments I would get alone. During those quiet moments, I was able to re-calibrate and get a sense of self that I couldn't have with three screaming kids, a nagging wife and all that work. A day to just...

You can’t beat emotion. Stop trying.

You can’t beat emotion. Stop trying.

On this site, my most popular podcasts and articles are by far the ones dealing with Dead Bedrooms. The next most popular topics are about Infidelity. On the way more popular website Talk About Marriage, the two most popular "focused" topics are "Coping with...

“My wife wouldn’t do that.”

“My wife wouldn’t do that.”

When I talk about my own personal "awakening" during post-divorce life,  I usually mean in terms of recognizing the underlying truths in relationships and the psychology of my fellow humans, ladies in particular. Accepting REALITY and not what SHOULD be, in other...

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