DIVORCE ARTICLES

You can’t trust yourself. Take time to heal.

You can’t trust yourself. Take time to heal.

While I was married to my first wife,  I used to cherish the rare moments I would get alone. During those quiet moments, I was able to re-calibrate and get a sense of self that I couldn't have with three screaming kids, a nagging wife and all that work. A day to just...

You’re free?! Divorced?! Forget about women for a while.

You’re free?! Divorced?! Forget about women for a while.

A recent email exchange with a reader reminded me of something. The most often asked question I get by guys who have discovered infidelity and see divorce on the horizon: "So... what's dating like?" These poor guys are so conditioned to having a female by their side...

Post-Breakup Man Roadmap. Step 1: I NEED SEX!

Post-Breakup Man Roadmap. Step 1: I NEED SEX!

I went through it. Every man I know who was cheated on and later divorced has gone through it. EVERY ONE. The rabid sex stage. The "I will fuck anything that moves" stage. Right now divorced guys everywhere are reading this and saying "Hehe... yep." We humans are such...

The Post-Divorce Dating Primer

You're newly divorced. You've joined a fraternity of men who spent a good chunk of their adult life with one person.... but now find themselves where they never thought they would be: Deep in the crazy world of single people. It can be surreal. Scary. Wondrous. Evil....

My One Marriage Counseling Experience

My One Marriage Counseling Experience

How the hell did I get here? I'm seated across from a very nice and motherly marriage counselor. My wife is next to me. Tissue in hand. Dabbing at her eyes. I have somehow held back my tears. I don't know why, but I just poured out my life story to the counselor. It...

Book Review: Single Father, Better Dad – By Mark Tucker

I happened upon an article online from Australia that gave a sneak peak at a new book by a Mark Tucker called "Single Father, Better Dad". The article really really hit home for me. What he described was so eerily similar to my own divorce experience, that I...

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