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Nov 30, 2020
Our own Jack London (DSO Fraternity meeting host and coach) was a guest on the "Regular Infantry Guys" podcast promoting our website and the Fraternity. 
Nov 30, 2020
Your cheating wife's behavior doesn't make sense? You got the "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" speech? Does she seem completely cold and detached from you ... and nothing you have done means anything to her? Let's dig into the topic of human nature and this all-too-common behavior.
Nov 20, 2020
We recently held a live DSO Fraternity meeting that was open to the public. If you missed it, you can listen to the recording here!
Nov 12, 2020
Jason is like a lot of my readers... he can pinpoint the moment his relationship started going off the rails... and his bedroom died. Listen to his story and see how he turned things around after reading The Dead Bedroom Fix and what obstacles are around the corner for him as he improves in life.
Nov 10, 2020
Marriage is a lot like college... it ain't for all of us.
Nov 09, 2020
Thomas is one of three coaches and meetings moderators with Dad Starting Over and the DSO Fraternity. His story, starting in high school, is the definition of UNIQUE. We can all learn from his tenacity and work ethic.
Oct 28, 2020
Austin is one of the biggest success stories on the DSO Fraternity and the private Facebook group for men in dead bedrooms. Listen to his story and what has worked for him and what he has done to turn his marriage around. We can all learn a great deal from Austin's introspection and work ethic.
Oct 12, 2020
This is an actual one-on-one coaching session with Jeff, a reader of The Dead Bedroom Fix. His story is, in a way, not typical of my readers... but at the same time a story that I have heard a million times (NOTE: Yes, this audio was posted with the client's permission).
Sept 25, 2020
This is my first interview with Dr. Robert Glover from 2019. At the time, Dr. Glover was promoting his book "Dating Essentials". We had a good chat about his book and his wildly popular first book "No More Mr. Nice Guy".
NOTE: Sorry, but the audio quality is not the best! This has been cut and edited to try and salvage as much audio as possible. Thanks for listening!

Sept 8, 2020
Russell, a reader of The Dead Bedroom Fix, has a wife of seven years who one day surprised him with "I want a divorce". She's been back and forth several times.. one day saying she's done, the next saying she wants to work things out. This story should sound familiar to many of you.
Sept 7, 2020
Neediness is the source of so much pain and anguish when it comes to personal relationships.
Sept 7, 2020
In this episode, I tackle some recent emails that readers have sent in. These types of questions are VERY common.
Aug 21, 2020
This is an actual one-on-one coaching session with "Matt", a reader of "The Dead Bedroom Fix".  Matt's first session is not typical of readers of the DB Fix. He jumps over the topic of "having more sex with my wife" and dives right into a much deeper discussion. "I just don't know what to do with my life."
Aug 5, 2020
This is an actual one-on-one coaching session with "Dave", a reader of The Dead Bedroom Fix. Unfortunately, Dave was told five months ago that his wife wanted to end their relationship of 22 years.
Aug 5, 2020
In this episode, I look at one woman's online account of how her marriage ended in her affair and subsequent divorce.
Aug 3, 2020
Cheating wives all have a VERY similar set of behavior. I've heard hundreds of stories from men all over the world. Here are the seven most common things that cheating wives do.
Jul 8, 2020
Let's talk about that four-letter word: PORN
Jul 8, 2020
In this episode, I talk about what I think every woman should know about what it takes to be a "better wife". The key word is VALIDATION.
Jul 8, 2020
The fact that nobody seems to care about you and your predicament should be accepted... and a freeing concept.
Jul 8, 2020
What exactly is "Real Love"? How do you find it? How do you maintain it? Is it for everyone?
Jul 8, 2020
The classic role of "Provider" is dead, gentlemen. It's time to wake up.
Jul 8, 2020
What exactly is "Real Love"? How do you find it? How do you maintain it? Is it for everyone?
Jul 8, 2020
Your wife cheated on you and left... now she's crawling back. The moment you've been waiting for. Do you take her back?
Apr 1, 2020
What steps do you have to take to get over your ex completely? Why does it hurt so bad?
Mar 25, 2020
For all of you Dead Bedroom Fix readers wanting to get closer to that "new relationship energy" level of intimacy you had early in your relationship, this episode is for you!
Mar 20, 2020
What does it mean exactly if your wife proposes that you "open" your marriage?
Dec 7, 2019
In this episode I talk about what I did wrong in my failed relationship. No, I'm not all perfect... and no, it wasn't all her fault. I had work to do, and I didn't do it. But why?
Nov 25, 2019

In this episode, I talk about the common question I see posted online all the time: "Are ALL women like this?!" 

As with most things in life, it's not as simple as "MGTOW!" and "HYPERGAMY!". It's time to put on our adult hats and look at what got us all in this mess in the first place.

Apr 10, 2019
We’re so accustomed to being lied to that we let is slip by again and again with no consequence or action. When it comes to our saintly women, men like to fall all over themselves explaining away these indiscretions. Our women are just far too innocent to think that they would lie to us for insidious reasons. They’re just little fibs.
Sep 26, 2018
So your wife was caught in an affair. Let me guess, he was a loser, right? He was by no means the kind of guy that she should want in a long-term relationship partner.  Your situation is not unique. It is the norm.  Let's talk about it and explore the phenomenon.
Jul 2, 2018
In this episode, I talk about the all-too-common scenario of men blaming "the other man" for their wife's affair. Then the conversation turns to the importance of enforcing boundaries and how your own wife may need your help enforcing boundaries that you may feel she should do herself.  Don't be such a nice guy... grow a pair.
Jun 26, 2018
So I listened to the first episode I did about TRT... and realized I left a great deal out. In this episode we will talk about sperm, erections, roid rage, acne... it's a good one.
Jun 24, 2018

I've been a TRT patient for several years. I can say, without a doubt, it has changed my life for the better.

In this episode I briefly go over my experience, the pros and cons and what you can do to get started (if you need TRT).

DISCLAIMER: I am NOT a medical professional. At all. This is just my own experience as a TRT patient. Seek the physician or trained medical professional with experience in hormone replacement therapy.

Dec 18, 2017

"Have a kid! Don't worry about it or overthink it... just have one!"  Bringing a human into this world is a very big deal. The money. The logistical planning. The toll it takes on your marriage.

Think you're a tough guy? Have a kid. We'll see what you're really made of.

In this episode I talk about all the all-too-common dead bedroom scenario that happens when kids arrive, my advice for when you decide to have a kid, and how you as a man need to be to keep yourself out of trouble.

May 15, 2017
So you are ready to date... or not really ready but can't hold back any longer and need sex? In this episode I talk about the mindset you must enter with when dating.. and the two pathways of Lover vs. Provider.
Mar 4, 2017
First part of a multi-part episode discussing the hot topic of men dating post-divorce.
Jan 2, 2017
The super popular topic that every man wishes he didn't have to talk about... the dreaded DEAD BEDROOM. What is it with the "not tonight honey, I have a headache" stereotype? The frigid wife. What's going on there? Does a long term marriage really HAVE to mean a lack of a good sex life?
Dec 12, 2016
So you found out. The world as you know it has changed 100%. You're experiencing a tsunami of emotions and you are very likely to make HUGE mistakes that will haunt you for life. Listen to my advice and come out ahead.
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