RELATIONSHIPS

RELATIONSHIPS

You can’t trust yourself. Take time to heal.

You can’t trust yourself. Take time to heal.

While I was married to my first wife,  I used to cherish the rare moments I would get alone. During those quiet moments, I was able to re-calibrate and get a sense of self that I couldn't have with three screaming kids, a nagging wife and all that work. A day to just...

“My wife wouldn’t do that.”

“My wife wouldn’t do that.”

When I talk about my own personal "awakening" during post-divorce life,  I usually mean in terms of recognizing the underlying truths in relationships and the psychology of my fellow humans, ladies in particular. Accepting REALITY and not what SHOULD be, in other...

Think Being a Single Guy is Tough? Try Being a Woman.

Think Being a Single Guy is Tough? Try Being a Woman.

I'm going to go off script here and talk about the other half of the species. Lets put on our virtual pair of Spanx and padded bra and take a peak at what it's like as a single WOMAN today. IT AIN'T ALL ABOUT SEX Let's get one thing out of the way. Yes, single women...

Lying

Lying

The most insidious and oft-overlooked red flag in the giant book of red flags is without a doubt LYING. Lying is so pervasive that we even have a term for the more "innocent" ones: "little white lies". How about "fib"? Sounds like a name for a little hamster. Fibster....

Baggage

Baggage

Here's a common term in the world of relationships: BAGGAGE. "Baggage" is another word for all the negative shit that happened to you in the past and that is presumably deeply embedded in your psyche and ready to bubble up at a moment's notice.  After a marriage...

Five Awful Truths About Relationships

Five Awful Truths About Relationships

Relationships are so full of bullshit. We bring so much baggage, expectations and all around retardation to our personal relationships... there's no wonder we have so much divorce, infidelity and secrecy going on. We construct worlds in our own mind that are NOT based...

SEO: Sexual Energy Optimization

SEO: Sexual Energy Optimization

A little background on me... I do marketing work for companies. Mostly local small/mid-size businesses. I help them push their brand, look professional, and grow their business. I do a lot of creative design work, branding, photography, videography, social media......

For the Ladies: Advice from the DSO

For the Ladies: Advice from the DSO

A different little spin on things... some general relationship advice from me to the ladies. 1. Empathize more. It's not always about you. Put yourself in his shoes. For those of you saying "Well yeah, duh!"... you'd be surprised how many women just flat out do not...

Comfort

Comfort

A question I recently received from a reader: "What tips do you have for a happily married person to strive to be the best they can be?" My reply: Don't get comfortable. You now how when you first started dating that you worked hard to look your best? You put on your...

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