SELF-IMPROVEMENT

You can’t trust yourself. Take time to heal.

You can’t trust yourself. Take time to heal.

While I was married to my first wife,  I used to cherish the rare moments I would get alone. During those quiet moments, I was able to re-calibrate and get a sense of self that I couldn't have with three screaming kids, a nagging wife and all that work. A day to just...

My Story – Part 3 – The Phoenix Rises

My Story – Part 3 – The Phoenix Rises

Rock bottom. I had hit it. From my perspective at the time, it was very sudden. The last 10 years were a blur. Moving across state lines. Failed business. Kids. Wife's job changes. More kids. My job changes. Death. It all went by in about 10 seconds. Somewhere along...

My Story – Part 2 – My Holy Shit Moment Has Arrived

My Story – Part 2 – My Holy Shit Moment Has Arrived

So my wife starts working with the personal trainer. She literally spends at least 2 hours each day at the gym.. and longer on weekends. How the hell does she accomplish this? She gets up at 4:00am every single day. This is her mission now.  This is on top of her very...

My Story – Part 1 – The Beginning

My Story – Part 1 – The Beginning

Things I hear a lot from guys online: "Well, did YOU ever run into this..." or "What did YOU do when this happened to you?" I just realized,...I never really did share my full story with the world. I hinted at it a bit in the About Me page,  but I haven't gone into...

Hitting Rock Bottom

Hitting Rock Bottom

Ever notice how the most interesting and famous people in the world have been through some of the worst situations in life? You often hear stories of awful early childhood abuse, neglect, drug use, death, disease... and yet there they are on television talking to a...

Accept REALITY – Not What SHOULD Be

Accept REALITY – Not What SHOULD Be

After talking to dozens of men and reading stories from hundreds of guys experiencing the pain and regret of divorce and infidelity, you start to see patterns. That's what started this whole website and podcast adventure of mine, after all.  Patterns. Me: "Hmmm......

Nobody Gives a Shit

Nobody Gives a Shit

A man finds out his wife cheats on him. His world is crushed. What he thought was up is down. Black is white. The universe just pulled the rug out from under him and he's still wondering what  in the hell just happened. Where does he go from here? He's more than...

SEO: Sexual Energy Optimization

SEO: Sexual Energy Optimization

A little background on me... I do marketing work for companies. Mostly local small/mid-size businesses. I help them push their brand, look professional, and grow their business. I do a lot of creative design work, branding, photography, videography, social media......

ALPHAS/LOVERS and BETAS/PROVIDERS

ALPHAS/LOVERS and BETAS/PROVIDERS

In internet parlance, "Alpha" is an overused term meaning "A manly dude who doesn't take shit from anybody and is successful in health, work, sex, etc." You know... a real man. A "Beta" on the other hand, is the weak-willed guy who is very needy and succumbs to the...

Comfort

Comfort

A question I recently received from a reader: "What tips do you have for a happily married person to strive to be the best they can be?" My reply: Don't get comfortable. You now how when you first started dating that you worked hard to look your best? You put on your...

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