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Hello, I’m the Dad Starting Over.

I’m  a divorced father of three kids who had his life turned upside-down when his wife had an affair and filed for divorce.

I invite you to join our community of THOUSANDS of men just like you. 

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Hello, I’m the Dad Starting Over.

I’m  a divorced father of three kids who had his life turned upside-down when his wife had an affair and filed for divorce.


Over the past several years I have reprogrammed myself to become an overall happier and more successful dude. I've helped thousands of men do the same. Please feel free to read through my site and learn more about my philosophies and advice about relationships and this game we call "being a man in this crazy world".


I invite you to join our community of THOUSANDS of men just like you.

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Oct 21, 2020

Is it really necessary to look your best and get in great shape to turn women on? I ask because I know of somebody who has a lot of luck with women, and he’s in terrible shape. His personality is very outgoing and fun, but he’s a real mess physically. I think putting so much importance on fitness and looks is a bit misleading.

Oct 16, 2020
My wife and I have a good relationship after 15 years of marriage, demanding careers, and two kids.  We are both professionals and a business together.  A few years ago, I noticed her rolling over more at night.  We would have sex once a week on average, but I noticed her complaining during the act at times
Oct 8, 2020

I've read over a lot of your stuff, and there's one thing that keeps going around in my head. I need to talk to an expert about my problems. I know now that the stuff I went through as a young child was pretty bad and it's had a pretty huge effect on my marriage.

Sept 25, 2020
Mr. DSO told me that there was a book frequently encountered on nightstands of wives that overall appeared unhappy in their relationships. We jokingly started exploring whether this book “Untamed” was some sort of cult that talked women into leaving their husbands or just puts a magical spell of crazy on them.
Sept 15, 2020

I've read a lot of your stuff, joined the Fraternity and checked out the Facebook group discussions. It seems to me that your advice and the advice of just about everyone I talk to seems to be to leave my wife and break up my family. I can't do that. I've thought about it, talked to an attorney and came really really close to telling her that I'm filing... but I can't do it. I couldn't live with myself and the idea that I broke up our family. I couldn't live without seeing my kids every day.

LATEST PODCASTS
Sept 8, 2020
Russell, a reader of The Dead Bedroom Fix, has a wife of seven years who one day surprised him with "I want a divorce". She's been back and forth several times.. one day saying she's done, the next saying she wants to work things out. This story should sound familiar to many of you.
Sept 7, 2020
In this episode, I tackle some recent emails that readers have sent in. These types of questions are VERY common.
Sept 7, 2020
Neediness is the source of so much pain and anguish when it comes to personal relationships.
Aug 21, 2020
This is an actual one-on-one coaching session with "Matt", a reader of "The Dead Bedroom Fix".  Matt's first session is not typical of readers of the DB Fix. He jumps over the topic of "having more sex with my wife" and dives right into a much deeper discussion. "I just don't know what to do with my life.
Aug 5, 2020
This is an actual one-on-one coaching session with "Dave", a reader of The Dead Bedroom Fix. Unfortunately, Dave was told five months ago that his wife wanted to end their relationship of 22 years.
Aug 5, 2020
In this episode, I look at one woman's online account of how her marriage ended in her affair and subsequent divorce. 
Aug 3, 2020
Cheating wives all have a VERY similar set of behavior. I've heard hundreds of stories from men all over the world. Here are the seven most common things that cheating wives do.
ABOUT ME

Hi there, I’m the DSO (Dad Starting Over).  My story is not an unusual one. For those who just stumbled upon this site by chance and have no connection to the subject matter… it may seem a bit “out there”. Trust me… it’s common. For the rest of us, you came here for a reason: You need to hit the restart button on life and redefine what it means to be a MAN in today’s world. You need a boost up over the wall and you’re scrambling for any little nugget of wisdom that will help you climb that extra inch.

Why a restart? Well, maybe life just kicked you in the teeth. If you’re like me and millions of other grown men all over the world… you were  told “I want a divorce”, or worse… you discovered infidelity. Your entire worldview has changed. Your head is spinning. What you thought was innocent and comfortable is now twisted and scary. Welcome to the real world, my friend. I’ve been there and done that.

My philosophies and advice are not cookie-cutter. They’re not politically correct. They’re not always nice. But.. they work. They make sense. They get results.

Want to know more about me? A great place to start is here:

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