Hello, I’m the Dad Starting Over.

I’m  a divorced father of three kids who had his life turned upside-down when his wife had an affair and filed for divorce.

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Hello, I’m the Dad Starting Over.

I’m  a divorced father of three kids who had his life turned upside-down when his wife had an affair and filed for divorce.


Over the past several years I have reprogrammed myself to become an overall happier and more successful dude. I've helped thousands of men do the same. Please feel free to read through my site and learn more about my philosophies and advice about relationships and this game we call "being a man in this crazy world".


I invite you to join our community of THOUSANDS of men just like you.

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May 21, 2020

My story: Before I met my wife, I had sex with at least 200 different women. I worked at a night club for several years. It was like shooting fish in a barrel. I'm a pretty good looking guy and keep in good shape.

May 14, 2020
After we got married I wanted kids but wasnt ready and created lots of tension which led to me waiting six years.  Sex started mostly being mechanical around that time. Not every time but the bulk of it.
Mar 25, 2020

Hey there! Definitely enjoyed reading your book (The Dead Bedroom Fix). Never read that much and I finished it in a day. Definitely related to the book in lots of the situations. One question I do have for you…

Apr 30, 2020
I didn’t really understand the phrase until I got my own divorce. But how is it that after fifteen years of making choices together every day – all of a sudden we are irreconcilable?
Apr 24, 2020
Many guys that email me or post on the Facebook groups will begin their tales of woe with the most bluntly negative and self-limiting thoughts and stories. They tell me they are broke, they are old, they are fat, they are lazy, they are clueless about women, they can’t get sex, etc
LATEST PODCASTS
Apr 1, 2020
What steps do you have to take to get over your ex completely? Why does it hurt so bad?
Mar 25, 2020
For all of you Dead Bedroom Fix readers wanting to get closer to that "new relationship energy" level of intimacy you had early in your relationship, this episode is for you!
Mar 20, 2020
What does it mean exactly if your wife proposes that you "open" your marriage?
Dec 7, 2019
In this episode I talk about what I did wrong in my failed relationship. No, I'm not all perfect... and no, it wasn't all her fault. I had work to do, and I didn't do it. But why?
ABOUT ME

Hi there, I’m the DSO (Dad Starting Over).  My story is not an unusual one. For those who just stumbled upon this site by chance and have no connection to the subject matter… it may seem a bit “out there”. Trust me… it’s common. For the rest of us, you came here for a reason: You need to hit the restart button on life and redefine what it means to be a MAN in today’s world. You need a boost up over the wall and you’re scrambling for any little nugget of wisdom that will help you climb that extra inch.

Why a restart? Well, maybe life just kicked you in the teeth. If you’re like me and millions of other grown men all over the world… you were  told “I want a divorce”, or worse… you discovered infidelity. Your entire worldview has changed. Your head is spinning. What you thought was innocent and comfortable is now twisted and scary. Welcome to the real world, my friend. I’ve been there and done that.

My philosophies and advice are not cookie-cutter. They’re not politically correct. They’re not always nice. But.. they work. They make sense. They get results.

Want to know more about me? A great place to start is here:

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