Hello, I’m the Dad Starting Over.

I’m  a divorced father of three kids who had his life turned upside-down when his wife had an affair and filed for divorce.

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Hello, I’m the Dad Starting Over.

I’m  a divorced father of three kids who had his life turned upside-down when his wife had an affair and filed for divorce.


Over the past several years I have reprogrammed myself to become an overall happier and more successful dude. I've helped thousands of men do the same. Please feel free to read through my site and learn more about my philosophies and advice about relationships and this game we call "being a man in this crazy world".


I invite you to join our community of THOUSANDS of men just like you. Membership is free.

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“Great read so far! The first few chapters have given me so much clarity on the crap I’ve been trying to get my head around. I keep going back and re-reading things! Many thanks – helping me get through things one horrible step at a time.” – Greg

This was exactly what I needed to read. It helped me a lot. I can start to see the light at the end of the tunnel. It’s been a tough year but I can see I have a lot of great stuff to be thankful for and to look forward to. Thanks!” – Jake

“Wow, just wow!! I downloaded today, worked 10 hours and couldn’t stop reading your book. I finished it today!  I can’t believe how you hit the nail on the head so many times!!!” – Rick

“I just finished The Dead Bedroom Fix and I feel like you have been following my wife and I around with a camera and microphone.  You made me aware of everything I have been doing wrong. Thank you!” – Shawn

LATEST ARTICLES
Jan 11, 2020
Richard purchased my book, the Dead Bedroom Fix, to help out with the lack of intimacy in his marriage. Like a lot of men in his shoes, the issues he is facing are deeper than "My wife doesn't seem to like sex anymore". For Richard, "starting over" means scrubbing...
Jan 4, 2020
Here’s a scenario I’ve heard more than a few times: A husband is tired of the same old no sex excuses and promises from his wife. “Not tonight. Maybe tomorrow, ok? I’m just tired.” This has been going on for months, if not years. He seeks out help online, and finds my...
Dec 11, 2019
Not sure if it's because of the holidays, but requests for my one-on-one coaching have gone up. Email frequency is up. This is almost becoming another full-time job. I'm not complaining! Hey, this is what I wanted and now I got it. Thanks to all of you for trusting me...
PODCAST EPISODES
Dec 7, 2019
In this episode I talk about what I did wrong in my failed relationship. No, I'm not all perfect... and no, it wasn't all her fault. I had work to do, and I didn't do it. But why?
Apr 10, 2019
We’re so accustomed to being lied to that we let is slip by again and again with no consequence or action. When it comes to our saintly women, men like to fall all over themselves explaining away these indiscretions. Our women are just far too innocent to think that they would lie to us for insidious reasons. They’re just little fibs.
Sep 26, 2018
So your wife was caught in an affair. Let me guess, he was a loser, right? He was by no means the kind of guy that she should want in a long-term relationship partner.  Your situation is not unique. It is the norm.  Let's talk about it and explore the phenomenon.
Jul 2, 2018
In this episode, I talk about the all-too-common scenario of men blaming "the other man" for their wife's affair. Then the conversation turns to the importance of enforcing boundaries and how your own wife may need your help enforcing boundaries that you may feel she should do herself.  Don't be such a nice guy... grow a pair.

In this episode, I talk about the common question I see posted online all the time: "Are ALL women like this?!" 

As with most things in life, it's not as simple as "MGTOW!" and "HYPERGAMY!". It's time to put on our adult hats and look at what got us all in this mess in the first place.

ABOUT ME

Hi there, I’m the DSO (Dad Starting Over).  My story is not an unusual one. For those who just stumbled upon this site by chance and have no connection to the subject matter… it may seem a bit “out there”. Trust me… it’s common. For the rest of us, you came here for a reason: You need to hit the restart button on life and redefine what it means to be a MAN in today’s world. You need a boost up over the wall and you’re scrambling for any little nugget of wisdom that will help you climb that extra inch.

Why a restart? Well, maybe life just kicked you in the teeth. If you’re like me and millions of other grown men all over the world… you were  told “I want a divorce”, or worse… you discovered infidelity. Your entire worldview has changed. Your head is spinning. What you thought was innocent and comfortable is now twisted and scary. Welcome to the real world, my friend. I’ve been there and done that.

My philosophies and advice are not cookie-cutter. They’re not politically correct. They’re not always nice. But.. they work. They make sense. They get results.

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