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“Are all women like this?”

“Are all women like this?”

I get tens of thousands of visitors to my website every month. I have about 17,000 likes and followers on my Facebook page and about 3,500 members in the two private Facebook groups. The numbers keep going up every single day. The topics brought up in emails and...

What did I do wrong in my failed relationship?

What did I do wrong in my failed relationship?

When you write a blog like this one, you run the risk of it becoming a site where a man stomps his feet and says, “I AM AMAZING AND MY EX IS A DEMON AND I DID NOTHING WRONG”. In looking back on my postings over the past few years, I can see where I may come across...

The Provider is Dead

The Provider is Dead

Modern-day men tend to be very agreeable dudes. We just go with the flow. We are the quintessential "Yes, dear" guys. Happy wife, happy life! "Okay, whatever you want to do is fine with me."  We gravitate towards the path of least resistance. Whatever causes less...

Losing Those Last Few Pounds

Losing Those Last Few Pounds

I have a personal goal right now... and that is to be a very lean and mean 190 lbs. I started around 203 lbs several weeks back, and now I'm at around 195. Little bit yet to go... and it has NOT been easy. Why It's Hard When you get to "in pretty good shape" levels of...

How to be a Better Wife

How to be a Better Wife

Once in a blue moon, I get an email from a female reader. You may think most of it is complaining or expressing their anger towards me… and you’d be right. I have, in fact, been called an “incel” and a misogynist (which is laughably off the mark), but I’ve also...

“Should I take her back?”

“Should I take her back?”

 (Here is a common scenario from my readers: Man and wife have a boring sexual relationship. They both work. Kids. Stress. Blah existence. Wife angry and tired most of the time. Husband frustrated. He doesn't feel validated and appreciated. Man discovers wife affair....

Dear DSO: “My wife cheated and my whole world has changed.”

Dear DSO: “My wife cheated and my whole world has changed.”

Dear DSO: Fourteen months ago I found out that my wife was cheating on me with a family friend. His dad was childhood friends with my dad. I've known him my whole life. We weren't super close, but we saw each other pretty often during holidays and family...

How to Catch Your Wife Cheating

How to Catch Your Wife Cheating

If you haven't done so already, please read "Seven Signs That Your Wife is Cheating". That post has been a huge eye-opener for many men who have that "gut feeling" that something was wrong and they needed a little nudge in the right direction.  So, your wife is...

Interview with Dr. Robert Glover

Interview with Dr. Robert Glover

I had the privilege of sitting with Dr. Robert Glover, famed author of "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and most recently "Dating Essentials for Men. The Only Dating Guide You Will Ever Need" which is now available as a Kindle download on Amazon. We chatted for an hour about...

Dear DSO: “I feel like I need a wife.”

Dear DSO: “I feel like I need a wife.”

Dear DSO: I read your book (Now What? A Guide for Men Starting Over in Life After Infidelity, Breakup and Divorce) and I totally agree that I'm one of those guys that feels like he needs a wife to feel normal. I was totally in love with my wife for the 14 years we...

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