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“Dear DSO: Women today are f*cking disgusting”

“Dear DSO: Women today are f*cking disgusting”

Dear DSO,I've been divorced for about two and half years. My wife left me after her second affair. Those are the only two affairs I know about, but there were probably more than that. We had no kids thank God. Our marriage lasted about four years. I...

Book Review: “Untrue” by Wednesday Martin

Book Review: “Untrue” by Wednesday Martin

I have just recently finished the book, "Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free" by Wednesday Martin. For a guy like me who has written on female sexuality (and how it...

“Dear DSO, What’s up with you and open marriages?”

“Dear DSO, What’s up with you and open marriages?”

Dear D.S.O., I've been following you on Facebook and have read all of your posts on the website. I think what you're doing is great and means a lot to guys like me. There's one thing I don't understand, and that's why you seem to be so hung-up on open...

New Years Resolutions

New Years Resolutions

We call them “Resolutioners”. They are the droves of out-of-shape people that suddenly show up to the gym after January 1, stick around for a month or so, and then disappear. They’re usually spotted hanging around the treadmills or elliptical machines. The...

Borderline Personality Disorder

Borderline Personality Disorder

If I had to summarize my Dad Starting Over world in 2018 (as far as my readers' stories and online postings are concerned), I could whittle it down to two things:"My wife wants an open marriage.""My wife has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)."#1, Open Marriages,...

Interview With A Real Dad Starting Over – “Mario”

Interview With A Real Dad Starting Over – “Mario”

This is the fourth in a series of interviews with REAL dads and dudes starting over in life. From each of these stories, we can learn a great deal from each other and see that we are nowhere near alone in our quest to start over. "Mario" is your typical "nice guy who...

A Look Inside The Mind of a Cheating Wife Who Filed For Divorce

A Look Inside The Mind of a Cheating Wife Who Filed For Divorce

A woman recently posted a very candid and honest story on the "Divorce" section of the super popular website Reddit. In the post, she outlines the conditions that led her to question her marriage and eventually have an affair. This coeherent chronological...

Interview With a Real Dad Starting Over – “David”

Interview With a Real Dad Starting Over – “David”

This is the third in a series of interviews with REAL dads and dudes starting over in life. From each of these stories, we can learn a great deal from each other and see that we are nowhere near alone in our quest to start over. "David" is yet another man with a...

Interview With A Real Dad Starting Over – “William”

Interview With A Real Dad Starting Over – “William”

This is the second in a series of interviews with REAL dads and dudes starting over in life. From each of these stories, we can learn a great deal from each other and see that we are nowhere near alone in our quest to start over. "William" is the an example of a VERY...

Getting Fit – Part 1: Diet

Getting Fit – Part 1: Diet

This is me. This is my typical weight of about 200 lbs at 6′ in height. Bodyfat percentage? I have no idea. Maybe around 15% or more (everyone always grossly underestimates body fat). I’m not a super-ripped glistening fitness model with six pack abs and visible veins...

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