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Dissecting Dead Bedrooms

Dissecting Dead Bedrooms

We all know the tried-and-true stereotype of the typical modern day marriage: Man is horny and ready to go at any time. Even though his wife is older, heavier and not nearly as bubbly and sweet as she was in the honeymoon stage of their early relationship, he still...

Dad Bods

Dad Bods

Dad bods. We know what they are. Squishy. Doughy. A dude built like an ice cream sandwich. It says, "I have kids. I got a lot of shit to do. I don't have time for the gym or watching what I eat." In other words, "Screw it. I give up." Strangely, there seems to be a...

Mommy’s Coping Skills

Mommy’s Coping Skills

Women are more social by nature. What their peer groups says and thinks and feels is of paramount importance. Not only do women tend to "follow the herd" more than men, keep up with trends, and make the majority of the buying decisions (over 80% of consumer spending...

Dear DSO: It’s not so easy for some of us.

Dear DSO: It’s not so easy for some of us.

Dear DSO, I know you talk about having to move on and get over your wife after she cheats on you, but it's not so easy for some guys. My wife and I have been married for 17 years. We have two kids. We work together. Her dad owns the business...

Dear DSO: How do I get my husband to be more of a Lover?

Dear DSO: How do I get my husband to be more of a Lover?

Dear DSO, I am a woman but somehow found your articles and I think they’re great! Very clearly stated why marriages fail and women cheat on “nice guys”. Would be great to see an article for women someday - how to help a husband to become more of a lover...

“Dear DSO: Women today are f*cking disgusting”

“Dear DSO: Women today are f*cking disgusting”

Dear DSO, I've been divorced for about two and half years. My wife left me after her second affair. Those are the only two affairs I know about, but there were probably more than that. We had no kids thank God. Our marriage lasted about four years. I...

Book Review: “Untrue” by Wednesday Martin

Book Review: “Untrue” by Wednesday Martin

I have just recently finished the book, "Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free" by Wednesday Martin. For a guy like me who has written on female sexuality (and how it...

“Dear DSO, What’s up with you and open marriages?”

“Dear DSO, What’s up with you and open marriages?”

Dear D.S.O., I've been following you on Facebook and have read all of your posts on the website. I think what you're doing is great and means a lot to guys like me. There's one thing I don't understand, and that's why you seem to be so hung-up on open marriages. I...

New Years Resolutions

New Years Resolutions

We call them “Resolutioners”. They are the droves of out-of-shape people that suddenly show up to the gym after January 1, stick around for a month or so, and then disappear. They’re usually spotted hanging around the treadmills or elliptical machines. The...

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