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SEO: Sexual Energy Optimization

SEO: Sexual Energy Optimization

A little background on me... I do marketing work for companies. Mostly local small/mid-size businesses. I help them push their brand, look professional, and grow their business. I do a lot of creative design work, branding, photography,...

You’re free?! Divorced?! Forget about women for a while.

You’re free?! Divorced?! Forget about women for a while.

A recent email exchange with a reader reminded me of something. The most often asked question I get by guys who have discovered infidelity and see divorce on the horizon: "So... what's dating like?" These poor guys are so conditioned to having a female by their side...

So, your wife is cheating on you? Here’s what you do.

So, your wife is cheating on you? Here’s what you do.

I will be the first to admit that I did EVERYTHING WRONG when I discovered by ex-wife's infidelity. I am the perfect example of a guy who succeeded in spite of my immediate actions. I got lucky. I've spoken to enough guys to see patterns and recognize what one should...

ALPHAS/LOVERS and BETAS/PROVIDERS

ALPHAS/LOVERS and BETAS/PROVIDERS

In internet parlance, "Alpha" is an overused term meaning "A manly dude who doesn't take shit from anybody and is successful in health, work, sex, etc." You know... a real man. A "Beta" on the other hand, is the weak-willed guy who is very needy and succumbs to the...

Comfort

Comfort

  A question I recently received from a reader: "What tips do you have for a happily married person to strive to be the best they can be?" My reply: Don't get comfortable. You now how when you first started dating that you worked hard to look your best? You put on...

Being The Man is a JOB.

Being The Man is a JOB.

You go to work. Monday through Friday. You do your job. You don't complain. You don't ruffle feathers. You come in, do your tasks, clock out and leave. You've never called in sick. You don't like to attend the after-work parties or cocktail hours if you...

Post-Breakup Man Roadmap. Step 1: I NEED SEX!

Post-Breakup Man Roadmap. Step 1: I NEED SEX!

I went through it. Every man I know who was cheated on and later divorced has gone through it. EVERY ONE. The rabid sex stage. The "I will fuck anything that moves" stage. Right now divorced guys everywhere are reading this and saying "Hehe... yep." We humans are such...

Lift.

Lift.

"Dude, you're freakin' jacked!" I heard these words a few days ago while lifting weights with some teenage boys at the gym. They normally see me fully clothed, but this time I took my sweatshirt off. I was sweating like a pig, just got over a virus and felt dizzy. I'm...

The Post-Divorce Dating Primer

The Post-Divorce Dating Primer

You're newly divorced. You've joined a fraternity of men who spent a good chunk of their adult life with one person.... but now find themselves where they never thought they would be: Deep in the crazy world of single people. It can be surreal. Scary. Wondrous. Evil....

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