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You’re free?! Divorced?! Forget about women for a while.

You’re free?! Divorced?! Forget about women for a while.

A recent email exchange with a reader reminded me of something. The most often asked question I get by guys who have discovered infidelity and see divorce on the horizon: "So... what's dating like?" These poor guys are so conditioned to having a female by their side...

So, your wife is cheating on you? Here’s what you do.

So, your wife is cheating on you? Here’s what you do.

I will be the first to admit that I did EVERYTHING WRONG when I discovered by ex-wife's infidelity. I am the perfect example of a guy who succeeded in spite of my immediate actions. I got lucky. I've spoken to enough guys to see patterns and recognize what one should...

Lovers vs. Provider …. Alphas vs. Betas

Lovers vs. Provider …. Alphas vs. Betas

In internet parlance, "Alpha" is an overused term meaning "A manly dude who doesn't take shit from anybody and is successful in health, work, sex, etc." You know... a "real man".A "Beta" on the other hand, is the weak-willed guy who is very needy and...

Comfort

Comfort

  A question I recently received from a reader: "What tips do you have for a happily married person to strive to be the best they can be?" My reply: Don't get comfortable. You now how when you first started dating that you worked hard to look your best? You put...

Being The Man is a JOB.

Being The Man is a JOB.

You go to work. Monday through Friday. You do your job. You don't complain. You don't ruffle feathers. You come in, do your tasks, clock out and leave. You've never called in sick. You don't like to attend the after-work parties or cocktail hours if you...

Lift.

Lift.

"Dude, you're freakin' jacked!" I heard these words a few days ago while lifting weights with some teenage boys at the gym. They normally see me fully clothed, but this time I took my sweatshirt off. I was sweating like a pig, just got over a virus and felt dizzy. I'm...

The Post-Divorce Dating Primer

The Post-Divorce Dating Primer

You're newly divorced. You've joined a fraternity of men who spent a good chunk of their adult life with one person.... but now find themselves where they never thought they would be: Deep in the crazy world of single people. It can be surreal. Scary. Wondrous. Evil....

My One Marriage Counseling Experience

My One Marriage Counseling Experience

How the hell did I get here? I'm seated across from a very nice and motherly marriage counselor. My wife is next to me. Tissue in hand. Dabbing at her eyes. I have somehow held back my tears. I don't know why, but I just poured out my life story to the counselor. It...

Keeping Your Woman from Approaching “The Line”

Keeping Your Woman from Approaching “The Line”

Let's be really blunt here for a moment. Monogamy.. it just ain't right. And by "right", I mean... it just doesn't make biological sense. It goes against the strongest of forces: Our primal urge. I am a firm believer in science. Crazy, I know. Science tells me that we...

Relationship NEEDS

Relationship NEEDS

When it comes to romantic, long-term relationships… what is a NEED, exactly? It’s a quality that must exist in order for the relationship to flourish and continue. Sounds simple enough, but it never ceases to amaze me just how much us men don’t understand the needs of...

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