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I was recently emailed by a reader who asked me if I thought that the “Dead Bedroom” phenomenon that we see so often today has always been so common. Back in the “good ol days” of “Man works and wife stays home and depends on the man for her livelihood” … did we see...
When talking to guys talking about women, I hear some variation of "It's just not fair!" again and again. "Why do I have to do all the work to attract HER?" "Why is it that women seem to rule online dating? Even the older/fatter women on there have strict guidelines...
Somebody linked me to a video that Dr. Jordan Peterson made years ago. It’s one of many Jordan Peterson videos that I get on a regular basis. “Have you seen this?!” a reader will ask. Yeah, I probably have. Several times. I get the popularity of Jordan’s videos. He’s...
Dear DSO: I’m a gay woman who really enjoyed your book (The Dead Bedroom Fix). I know it wasn’t written for me, but there was A LOT in the book that I could relate to. I think you could rewrite this and focus on lesbian couples and sell a million copies. Dead Bedrooms...
The concept of boundaries is big, multi-faceted, and HUGELY important when it comes to relationships. There are a couple of different ways to look at boundaries. The most commonly thought of version of “boundaries” is to put proverbial walls around you and the rest of...
Dear DSO: I was listening to your podcast you did with your wife, and I loved it… but it also made me realize that maybe I can’t get the level of closeness I want with my wife. We’ve never had what I would call a very loving and close relationship. I’ve always felt...
"My situation is a little different. My wife is on anti-depressants and has been for years. She’s always had huge problems with anxiety and this latest pandemic has pushed her over the edge. She has completely shut down, emotionally.” This, unfortunately, is not “a...
The other day I was at the gym… doing what I usually do (wearing my mask, my big headphones, and staying away from other people) and I noticed… HER. New gal. It’s a small town and a small gym, so I know all of the regulars, and she had never been there before. She was...
DSO, I read your book, The Dead Bedroom Fix, and I loved it. Probably my favorite “man” book that I own (and I have a huge library of self-help books at home… which may not be a good thing). I have one big problem with the book, though. You make a big assumption: That...
“I don’t understand why my wife insists on being passive aggressive in her texts to me. She never just ASKS me nicely to do something… she always has to be vague and seems to bark orders.” Because you trained her to be that way. “I don’t get why my boss always drops a...