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Well, here I sit at my computer at 6:00 am. Tired. Kind of in a weird fog that only new parents can understand. It’s a combination of sleep deprivation and general exhaustion from just being busy all day with the kid and my regular workday. My day job has been busier...
It’s a tale as old as time. A couple is together for many years. They grow comfortable with each other. They feel safe. Secure. Kids are probably in the picture. Probably two jobs. Probably a stack of bills to worry about. The marriage becomes a machine that requires...
At the beginning of my journey on September 15, 2020, I had an epiphany that changed my life forever. I looked at the guy in the mirror and was disgusted. I vowed to stop everythingnegative holding me back from feeling happy again. That same day, I came across...
In psych terms, “gaslighting” (a term that refers to a popular 1937 play called “Gaslight”) is the word we use to describe it when somebody else purposely tries to make us doubt reality. They do so by feeding us false information, or denying information that is...
/Below is a transcript of my interview with Suzanne Venker for the Dad Starting Over podcast. Click the player above if you haven't yet listened to the episode, or listen and subscribe on your favorite podcast player. DSO: My guest today is Miss Suzanne Venker....
I was recently emailed by a reader who asked me if I thought that the “Dead Bedroom” phenomenon that we see so often today has always been so common. Back in the “good ol days” of “Man works and wife stays home and depends on the man for her livelihood” … did we see...
When talking to guys talking about women, I hear some variation of "It's just not fair!" again and again. "Why do I have to do all the work to attract HER?" "Why is it that women seem to rule online dating? Even the older/fatter women on there have strict guidelines...
Somebody linked me to a video that Dr. Jordan Peterson made years ago. It’s one of many Jordan Peterson videos that I get on a regular basis. “Have you seen this?!” a reader will ask. Yeah, I probably have. Several times. I get the popularity of Jordan’s videos. He’s...
Dear DSO: I’m a gay woman who really enjoyed your book (The Dead Bedroom Fix). I know it wasn’t written for me, but there was A LOT in the book that I could relate to. I think you could rewrite this and focus on lesbian couples and sell a million copies. Dead Bedrooms...
The concept of boundaries is big, multi-faceted, and HUGELY important when it comes to relationships. There are a couple of different ways to look at boundaries. The most commonly thought of version of “boundaries” is to put proverbial walls around you and the rest of...