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The Lure of The Crazy Woman

The Lure of The Crazy Woman

She will be into you. REALLY into you. She will shower you with praise. She will instantly recognize what buttons to push to make you a slobbering in-love doofus, and she will push those buttons with gusto. Repeatedly. She will be sexual. Very sexual. Nothing is off...

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Top Ten Things I Hear in Coaching Sessions

Top Ten Things I Hear in Coaching Sessions

I’ve been offering my counseling/coaching services in some form for several years now, and in that time I’ve learned one big thing: Wow, people sure are predictable creatures. I hear the same stories again and again. The good news is that men tend to take comfort in...

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Dear DSO: “Should I go to counseling?”

Dear DSO: “Should I go to counseling?”

Dear DSO, I've read over a lot of your stuff, and there's one thing that keeps going around in my head. I need to talk to an expert about my problems. I know now that the stuff I went through as a young child was pretty bad and it's had a pretty huge effect on my...

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Dear DSO: “I Can’t Leave The Kids”

Dear DSO: “I Can’t Leave The Kids”

DSO: I've read a lot of your stuff, joined the Fraternity and checked out the Facebook group discussions. It seems to me that your advice and the advice of just about everyone I talk to seems to be to leave my wife and break up my family. I can't do that. I've thought...

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Another Female Review of The Dead Bedroom Fix

Another Female Review of The Dead Bedroom Fix

Dear DSO, Great book!  I read it in one sitting! I know…I was supposed to stop reading at page 1, since I’m a female, but I continued on anyway.  Over the last 3 years, I have researched this topic extensively and I always seem to be drawn more to the male perspective...

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Let Her Go

Let Her Go

“She told me she wants some time apart to think about things. She won’t return my texts. My son is asking where his mom went to. I want to fight for our marriage. I can’t give up on us. This all started when she went back to school. I think she’s having some kind of...

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