I’m T.H. Stephen. Over the course of 25 years, I have dealt with a multitude of familiar issues that probably brought you here. Ranging from adultery (on both sides) leading the path to divorce and a long, expensive custody battle to managing a blended family, balancing a long-distance relationship, a few more legal/custody battles, domestic disputes, trying to date in today’s technology and social media driven society, and staying in shape at forty. When I work with you, I bring a wealth of personal experience brought on by my successes, as well as my failures.

After spending 7 years in the army, I was in my late twenties, divorced, broke, and wondering where my life would take me.

Ten years later, I have several degrees, a well-paying career, and court papers showing custody of all my children.

So, what is the value of experience? I have seen rock bottom and fought to become the man that says, “no more!” I know what being a “nice guy” looks like and how a dose of self-confidence can help you in any situation. Even now, at forty, I’ve decided enough is enough. I’m rebuilding the life I want and helping others, like yourself, do the same.

I am currently working towards starting law school and am in the best physical shape of my life. I know how to grind; in the gym, in the bedroom, in the workplace, and even in the courtroom. In my interview with DSO posted below, you can hear my story. I am an exception to the rule, and I can help you become the man you want to be.

What can you expect when I work with you?

1. Straight-forward Advice

I won’t hold back and I don’t accept excuses. Regardless of where you are at now, you can always start over. I will help you to live the life you want to live.

2. Honesty

Fact. Not all marriages are meant to last.

I won’t hesitate to tell you when it’s time to pack your bags and move on. I also won’t lie to you about how much work it’s going to take to salvage a relationship worth saving and guide you towards saving it.

3. Game Plan

At the end of every session, we will set a game plan for moving forward. It is up to YOU to implement the plan, but together we will get you moving in the right direction.

4. Results

I will hold you accountable. I reach out on a regular basis offering advice, a listening ear, and that extra nudge you need to keep you motivated.

YOU are responsible for your situation and only YOU can change it!

Interview with "Thomas" - DSO Fraternity meeting host and coach. He has one very INTERESTING story.

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