GET THROUGH YOUR RUT AND BECOME A BETTER MAN
My wife (number two) and I are well past our honeymoon phase. Comfort and familiarity have set in. We’ve both seen each other at our worst. Surgeries. Sickness. Injuries. Sadness. Death. We’ve been there for each other through it all… and...
I talked about the Former Lover in my other article, but this one is the exact opposite. Ironically, both men end up with the same result (the dead bedrooms). Unfortunately for Mr. Nice Guy, digging himself out of this hole is a lot...
Common scenario: A dude has been without sex from his wife for X number of months. He reads The Dead Bedroom Fix. His wife starts acting a little different. Several weeks go by and she is actually flirty and fun. She’s making some sexual...
It’s a crucial stage of development for every man who is on the “Dead Bedroom Fix/ Marriage Repair” journey. When is enough… enough? When is it time to say, “Yeah, I think I’m done here”? Here is a common scenario I hear from readers of...
When I was a middle-class kid growing up in rural Indiana, there was one word that was uttered by every single adult. Every teacher said it. Every parent said it. Grandparents said it. All the older kids said it. It was as pervasive as...
Let’s define what it is I mean by being “turned on”. To me, it’s not just a state of mind that says “I’m ready for sex”. That’s just one sign of being “turned on”. Many guys can bring about a physical state of arousal (an erection) while...
I am one lucky bastard. I’m “lucky” in the sense that I have opportunities that many others don’t have. I don’t have to worry about starving to death. I don’t have to worry about the local warlord deciding to kill my family for being part...
Men, if you have a lazy and overweight wife at home, and her weight and attitude really bother you… I want you to take a good long look at her. Let the vision really sink in. THAT is your wife. SHE represents YOU, just as much as YOU...
Soon after I discovered my first wife had an affair and wanted to divorce me, I sat down for a beer with a friend. Obviously, my cheating wife and all the ensuing drama was the topic of choice. It would prove to be the topic of choice for...
More and more I'm seeing the topic of "Open Marriages" come up from men online. Unlike what many people may think, it's not the men making the case for sleeping with other women, but rather husbands caught off guard by what they thought...