Marriage

New Baby is Here!

New Baby is Here!

Well, here I sit at my computer at 6:00 am. Tired. Kind of in a weird fog that only new parents can understand. It’s a combination of sleep deprivation and general exhaustion from just being busy all day with the kid and my regular...

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“Lesbian Bed Death”

“Lesbian Bed Death”

Dear DSO: I’m a gay woman who really enjoyed your book (The Dead Bedroom Fix). I know it wasn’t written for me, but there was A LOT in the book that I could relate to. I think you could rewrite this and focus on lesbian couples and sell a...

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Boundaries

Boundaries

The concept of boundaries is big, multi-faceted, and HUGELY important when it comes to relationships. There are a couple of different ways to look at boundaries. The most commonly thought of version of “boundaries” is to put proverbial...

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The Depressed Wife

The Depressed Wife

"My situation is a little different. My wife is on anti-depressants and has been for years. She’s always had huge problems with anxiety and this latest pandemic has pushed her over the edge. She has completely shut down, emotionally.”...

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