Dear DSO, Great book! I read it in one sitting! I know…I was supposed to stop reading at page 1, since I’m a female, but I continued on anyway. Over the last 3 years, I have researched this topic extensively and I always seem to be...

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Dear DSO, Great book! I read it in one sitting! I know…I was supposed to stop reading at page 1, since I’m a female, but I continued on anyway. Over the last 3 years, I have researched this topic extensively and I always seem to be...
DSO: I’ve always said that I’m a family man. I’m a husband and father above all else. I’ve defined myself by those roles. I pride myself on being a man of integrity and honor and I would do anything on Earth to protect my family in any...
“Dude, the other day she told me that she wished she never met me, and I was the worst person on the planet. All because I told her that we need to work on our relationship.” She’s mentally ill. “She has stopped wanting anything to do...
Dear DSO, I read your book, and it was really good but also really depressing. I realize now that I’m the provider and I always have been. I’ve never seen what it’s like to be the Lover. Ever. I was a virgin when I met my wife (she...
Many of the men that I work with one-on-one have endured the terrible experience of discovering their wife’s affair. For a few of these men, the wife is over-the-top apologetic and doesn’t want to break up the family. She says repeatedly...
DSO, I saw your post about “chaos queens” and it really hit home for me. I thought I would share my story and you can pass it along to your readers. My wife (will be my ex-wife very soon) had a really bad childhood. Her dad left the...
Men that I talk to all do the same thing when describing their relationship problems … they focus on the pain they are feeling. They focus on their own shortcomings. They focus on the how and why they fucked up so badly (it’s usually not...
DSO, I saw your survey on the Facebook group asking about results from using The Dead Bedroom Fix. I was part of the group that said that things were a lot better, but I’m not still not 100% happy. You and I spoke last year about my...
Dear DSO, I recently signed up for the DSO Fraternity and joined the Dead Bedrooms group on Facebook. I see that everyone is talking about shit tests and how to pass them (seems that cocky confidence is the way to go). My thought is that...