Relationships

New Baby is Here!

New Baby is Here!

Well, here I sit at my computer at 6:00 am. Tired. Kind of in a weird fog that only new parents can understand. It’s a combination of sleep deprivation and general exhaustion from just being busy all day with the kid and my regular...

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Gaslighting

Gaslighting

In psych terms, “gaslighting” (a term that refers to a popular 1937 play called “Gaslight”) is the word we use to describe it when somebody else purposely tries to make us doubt reality. They do so by feeding us false information, or...

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“Lesbian Bed Death”

“Lesbian Bed Death”

Dear DSO: I’m a gay woman who really enjoyed your book (The Dead Bedroom Fix). I know it wasn’t written for me, but there was A LOT in the book that I could relate to. I think you could rewrite this and focus on lesbian couples and sell a...

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