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Interview with Dr. Robert Glover

Interview with Dr. Robert Glover

I had the privilege of sitting with Dr. Robert Glover, famed author of "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and most recently "Dating Essentials for Men. The Only Dating Guide You Will Ever Need" which is now available as a Kindle download on Amazon. We chatted for an hour about...

Dear DSO: “I feel like I need a wife.”

Dear DSO: “I feel like I need a wife.”

Dear DSO: I read your book (Now What? A Guide for Men Starting Over in Life After Infidelity, Breakup and Divorce) and I totally agree that I'm one of those guys that feels like he needs a wife to feel normal. I was totally in love with my wife for the 14 years we...

DSO’s Relationship Rules

DSO’s Relationship Rules

 Baggage matters. Don’t underestimate the impact of your mate’s childhood on her present-day self. It matters. A lot. Same goes for you. Don't just gloss over past sexual abuse, abandonment, substance abuse, abusive relationships, etc. If the person you are partnering...

“Dear DSO: Women today are f*cking disgusting”

“Dear DSO: Women today are f*cking disgusting”

Dear DSO, I've been divorced for about two and half years. My wife left me after her second affair. Those are the only two affairs I know about, but there were probably more than that. We had no kids thank God. Our marriage lasted about four years. I...

MGTOW, Incels & Red Pill… Oh My!

MGTOW, Incels & Red Pill… Oh My!

If you’re a man that has been hurt by women and you’re scouring the internet looking for answers, then the terms “MGTOW”, “Incels” and “Red Pill” have surely come up on your computer screen more than a few times. I was first introduced to this world a few years ago...

“My wife wouldn’t do that.”

“My wife wouldn’t do that.”

When I talk about my own personal "awakening" during post-divorce life,  I usually mean in terms of recognizing the underlying truths in relationships and the psychology of my fellow humans, ladies in particular. Accepting REALITY and not what SHOULD be, in other...

Think Being a Single Guy is Tough? Try Being a Woman.

Think Being a Single Guy is Tough? Try Being a Woman.

I'm going to go off script here and talk about the other half of the species. Lets put on our virtual pair of Spanx and padded bra and take a peak at what it's like as a single WOMAN today.IT AIN'T ALL ABOUT SEX.Let's get one thing out of the way. Yes, single women...

Baggage

Baggage

Here's a common term in the world of relationships: BAGGAGE. "Baggage" is another word for all the negative shit that happened to you in the past and that is presumably deeply embedded in your psyche and ready to bubble up at a moment's notice.  After a marriage...

You’re free?! Divorced?! Forget about women for a while.

You’re free?! Divorced?! Forget about women for a while.

A recent email exchange with a reader reminded me of something. The most often asked question I get by guys who have discovered infidelity and see divorce on the horizon: "So... what's dating like?" These poor guys are so conditioned to having a female by their side...

Lovers vs. Provider …. Alphas vs. Betas

Lovers vs. Provider …. Alphas vs. Betas

In internet parlance, "Alpha" is an overused term meaning "A manly dude who doesn't take shit from anybody and is successful in health, work, sex, etc." You know... a "real man".A "Beta" on the other hand, is the weak-willed guy who is very needy and...

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