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Dear DSO, I am a woman but I still read your book, The Dead Bedroom Fix. I was really bothered by the ending of the book where you suggest that a man should leave a relationship if he's not getting sex from his wife. Personally, I think this is bullshit and an awful...
Dear DSO, I'm a big believer in The Dead Bedroom Fix book and everything you teach, but I have one big thing that keeps bugging me and I don't know how to properly address it. When my wife and I first met, we were all over each other. I have never felt that kind of...
In the early 1920s, Russia endured one of the worst famines in history. Approximately 5 million people died from starvation. Thanks to the perfect storm of the Russian Revolution, several years of a Russian Civil War, and a horrible dictator known as Vladimir Lenin,...
There's a subset of the internet that I recognize I intersect with a bit. They call themselves the “Red Pill” community. In short, it's a bunch of mostly younger men who have discovered that the world of relationships, girls, in particular, is NOT quite what they...
In the world of psychology, they have what they call the “Big 5” personality traits. They use these terms to help categorize and understand an individual's personality, temperament, and psyche. These five traits are: Openness Conscientiousness Extraversion...
Hi there, I’m the DSO (Dad Starting Over). I’m the founder of this website and author of the books many of you have read. My story is not an unusual one. For those who just stumbled upon this site by chance and have no connection to the subject matter… it may seem a bit “out there”. Trust me… it’s common. For the rest of us, you came here for a reason: You need to hit the restart button on life and redefine what it means to be a MAN in today’s world. You need a boost up over the wall and you’re scrambling for any little nugget of wisdom that will help you climb that extra inch.
Why a restart? Well, maybe life just kicked you in the teeth. If you’re like me and millions of other grown men all over the world… you were told “I want a divorce”, or worse… you discovered infidelity. Your entire worldview has changed. Your head is spinning. What you thought was innocent and comfortable is now twisted and scary. Welcome to the real world, my friend. I’ve been there and done that.
My philosophies and advice are not cookie-cutter. They’re not politically correct. They’re not always nice. But.. they work. They make sense. They get results.
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