INFIDELITY

What did I do wrong in my failed relationship?

What did I do wrong in my failed relationship?

When you write a blog like this one, you run the risk of it becoming a site where a man stomps his feet and says, “I AM AMAZING AND MY EX IS A DEMON AND I DID NOTHING WRONG”. In looking back on my postings over the past few years, I can see where I may come across...

“Should I take her back?”

“Should I take her back?”

 (Here is a common scenario from my readers: Man and wife have a boring sexual relationship. They both work. Kids. Stress. Blah existence. Wife angry and tired most of the time. Husband frustrated. He doesn't feel validated and appreciated. Man discovers wife affair....

Dear DSO: “My wife cheated and my whole world has changed.”

Dear DSO: “My wife cheated and my whole world has changed.”

Dear DSO: Fourteen months ago I found out that my wife was cheating on me with a family friend. His dad was childhood friends with my dad. I've known him my whole life. We weren't super close, but we saw each other pretty often during holidays and family...

How to Catch Your Wife Cheating

How to Catch Your Wife Cheating

If you haven't done so already, please read "Seven Signs That Your Wife is Cheating". That post has been a huge eye-opener for many men who have that "gut feeling" that something was wrong and they needed a little nudge in the right direction.  So, your wife is...

Dear DSO: “My friend says my wife is cheating…”

Dear DSO: “My friend says my wife is cheating…”

Dear DSO: One of my best friends went through a really bad divorce about a year and a half ago. His wife had an affair with a guy from her work (she's a nurse). Ever since then he's been talking to me about how women cheat way more than we think and most of the women...

Seven Signs That Your Wife is Cheating

Seven Signs That Your Wife is Cheating

As I outlined in "My Wife Wouldn't Do That" , there is a phenomenon of bewildered and shocked men that just CANNOT believe their wife would be capable of doing awful things like committing infidelity. Even when presented with ongoing warning signs and conclusive...

Dear DSO: It’s not so easy for some of us.

Dear DSO: It’s not so easy for some of us.

Dear DSO, I know you talk about having to move on and get over your wife after she cheats on you, but it's not so easy for some guys. My wife and I have been married for 17 years. We have two kids. We work together. Her dad owns the business...

Book Review: “Untrue” by Wednesday Martin

Book Review: “Untrue” by Wednesday Martin

I have just recently finished the book, "Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free" by Wednesday Martin. For a guy like me who has written on female sexuality (and how it...

“Dear DSO, What’s up with you and open marriages?”

“Dear DSO, What’s up with you and open marriages?”

Dear D.S.O., I've been following you on Facebook and have read all of your posts on the website. I think what you're doing is great and means a lot to guys like me. There's one thing I don't understand, and that's why you seem to be so hung-up on open marriages. I...

Borderline Personality Disorder

Borderline Personality Disorder

If I had to summarize my Dad Starting Over world in 2018 (as far as my readers' stories and online postings are concerned), I could whittle it down to two things:"My wife wants an open marriage.""My wife has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)."#1, Open Marriages,...

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