INFIDELITY

Dear DSO: “My friend says my wife is cheating…”

Dear DSO: “My friend says my wife is cheating…”

Dear DSO: One of my best friends went through a really bad divorce about a year and a half ago. His wife had an affair with a guy from her work (she's a nurse). Ever since then he's been talking to me about how women cheat way more than we think and most of the women...

Seven Signs That Your Wife is Cheating

Seven Signs That Your Wife is Cheating

As I outlined in "My Wife Wouldn't Do That" , there is a phenomenon of bewildered and shocked men that just CANNOT believe their wife would be capable of doing awful things like committing infidelity. Even when presented with ongoing warning signs and conclusive...

Dear DSO: It’s not so easy for some of us.

Dear DSO: It’s not so easy for some of us.

Dear DSO, I know you talk about having to move on and get over your wife after she cheats on you, but it's not so easy for some guys. My wife and I have been married for 17 years. We have two kids. We work together. Her dad owns the business where I work. It's a...

Book Review: “Untrue” by Wednesday Martin

Book Review: “Untrue” by Wednesday Martin

I have just recently finished the book, "Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free" by Wednesday Martin. For a guy like me who has written on female sexuality (and how it...

“Dear DSO, What’s up with you and open marriages?”

“Dear DSO, What’s up with you and open marriages?”

Dear D.S.O., I've been following you on Facebook and have read all of your posts on the website. I think what you're doing is great and means a lot to guys like me. There's one thing I don't understand, and that's why you seem to be so hung-up on open marriages. I...

Borderline Personality Disorder

Borderline Personality Disorder

If I had to summarize my Dad Starting Over world in 2018 (as far as my readers' stories and online postings are concerned), I could whittle it down to two things:"My wife wants an open marriage.""My wife has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)."#1, Open Marriages,...

Interview With A Real Dad Starting Over – “Mario”

Interview With A Real Dad Starting Over – “Mario”

This is the fourth in a series of interviews with REAL dads and dudes starting over in life. From each of these stories, we can learn a great deal from each other and see that we are nowhere near alone in our quest to start over. "Mario" is your typical "nice guy who...

A Look Inside The Mind of a Cheating Wife Who Filed For Divorce

A Look Inside The Mind of a Cheating Wife Who Filed For Divorce

A woman recently posted a very candid and honest story on the "Divorce" section of the super popular website Reddit. In the post, she outlines the conditions that led her to question her marriage and eventually have an affair. This coeherent chronological...

Interview With A Real Dad Starting Over – “William”

Interview With A Real Dad Starting Over – “William”

This is the second in a series of interviews with REAL dads and dudes starting over in life. From each of these stories, we can learn a great deal from each other and see that we are nowhere near alone in our quest to start over. "William" is the an example of a VERY...

Interview With A Real Dad Starting Over – “Pete”

Interview With A Real Dad Starting Over – “Pete”

This is a first in a series of interviews with REAL dads and dudes starting over in life. From each of these stories, we can learn a great deal from each other and see that we are nowhere near alone in our quest to start over. "Pete" is the perfect example of a guy...

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