The DSO Fraternity

Welcome to the Brotherhood

We’re all in this together.

Are you one of the millions of men looking to hit the reset button on life?

Are you fed up with your lackluster marriage?

Are you newly divorced and wondering where it all went wrong?

Are you one of the millions of men that just found out that your wife cheated on you?

Do you struggle with the idea of being a single parent?

Feel lost and don’t know where to go next?


You, my friend, are not alone.


DSO Fraternity members

I have been there and done that, and so have thousands of other readers and followers of my website:

I started Dad Starting Over after enduring my own failed marriage and a life that seemed to be destined for chaos. A cheater ex-wife, three kids, struggles with money… it was beyond difficult.

I learned a lot over the years. A whole lot. I wrote about my experiences and my thoughts on relationship game and what it means to be a man today.  It turns out that I was nowhere near alone in my struggles. I have been blessed to be able to help out thousands of men through my writing and one-on-one coaching .

Eight years, three books and thousands of followers later, I am happy to announce that we are now taking things to the next level and launching DSO Fraternity.


Together we can help each other move forward in life and become the best possible men that we can be.  

DSO Books
Movember Foundation
DSO Coaching
Member Articles
Live Group Meetings

So, what do you get for $14.99 per month?



More specifically, all current and future books written by DSO in PDF and audiobook format. Listen to the books right from your phone!


Member-only articles

Topics include dead bedrooms, dating, parenting, marriage, divorce, and physical fitness.  It’s all covered.  Members are free to comment and discuss the articles with other members.


Private Facebook Discussion Groups

We have three very active PRIVATE Facebook discussion groups for Men Starting Over After Divorce, Men in Dead Bedrooms, and Men Dating After Divorce.


Member-Only Podcast

Get access to our special podcast for members-only. Listen on your phone’s podcast app!


Live Group Audio/Video Meetings

On a regular basis, you can join your fellow men in group discussions on a variety of different topics. This is a great way to meet other men in your shoes and to get the much needed “men only” time that we all want. Note: All meetings are recorded and archived. Listen from your phone’s podcast app!


Discounted Coaching Rates

For those of you wanting to work one-on-one with DSO, the coaching rates are now reduced for DSO Fraternity members.


Join us for Brofest!

Fraternity members get access to our live in-person meetings we call “Brofest”. Meet the DSO team, special guests and fellow members for a weekend of fun, brotherhood, and learning.


Support The Movember Foundation

A portion of DSO Fraternity proceeds go to The Movember Foundation. Movember is the leading international charity that is changing the face of men’s health. Their focus is on helping find better treatments for prostate cancer, testicular cancer, as well as mental health and suicide prevention. Learn more about them at