MARRIAGE

Seven Signs That Your Wife is Cheating

Seven Signs That Your Wife is Cheating

As I outlined in "My Wife Wouldn't Do That" , there is a phenomenon of bewildered and shocked men that just CANNOT believe their wife would be capable of doing awful things like committing infidelity. Even when presented with ongoing warning signs and conclusive...

DSO’s Relationship Rules

DSO’s Relationship Rules

 Baggage matters. Don’t underestimate the impact of your mate’s childhood on her present-day self. It matters. A lot. Same goes for you. Don't just gloss over past sexual abuse, abandonment, substance abuse, abusive relationships, etc. If the person you are partnering...

Dissecting Dead Bedrooms

Dissecting Dead Bedrooms

We all know the tried-and-true stereotype of the typical modern day marriage: Man is horny and ready to go at any time. Even though his wife is older, heavier and not nearly as bubbly and sweet as she was in the honeymoon stage of their early relationship, he still...

Mommy’s Coping Skills

Mommy’s Coping Skills

Women are more social by nature. What their peer groups says and thinks and feels is of paramount importance. Not only do women tend to "follow the herd" more than men, keep up with trends, and make the majority of the buying decisions (over 80% of consumer spending...

Dear DSO: It’s not so easy for some of us.

Dear DSO: It’s not so easy for some of us.

Dear DSO, I know you talk about having to move on and get over your wife after she cheats on you, but it's not so easy for some guys. My wife and I have been married for 17 years. We have two kids. We work together. Her dad owns the business where I work. It's a...

Dear DSO: How do I get my husband to be more of a Lover?

Dear DSO: How do I get my husband to be more of a Lover?

Dear DSO,I am a woman but somehow found your articles and I think they’re great! Very clearly stated why marriages fail and women cheat on “nice guys”.Would be great to see an article for women someday - how to help a husband to become more of a lover and...

Book Review: “Untrue” by Wednesday Martin

Book Review: “Untrue” by Wednesday Martin

I have just recently finished the book, "Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free" by Wednesday Martin. For a guy like me who has written on female sexuality (and how it...

“Dear DSO, What’s up with you and open marriages?”

“Dear DSO, What’s up with you and open marriages?”

Dear D.S.O., I've been following you on Facebook and have read all of your posts on the website. I think what you're doing is great and means a lot to guys like me. There's one thing I don't understand, and that's why you seem to be so hung-up on open marriages. I...

Interview With A Real Dad Starting Over – “Mario”

Interview With A Real Dad Starting Over – “Mario”

This is the fourth in a series of interviews with REAL dads and dudes starting over in life. From each of these stories, we can learn a great deal from each other and see that we are nowhere near alone in our quest to start over. "Mario" is your typical "nice guy who...

A Look Inside The Mind of a Cheating Wife Who Filed For Divorce

A Look Inside The Mind of a Cheating Wife Who Filed For Divorce

A woman recently posted a very candid and honest story on the "Divorce" section of the super popular website Reddit. In the post, she outlines the conditions that led her to question her marriage and eventually have an affair. This coeherent chronological...

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