SELF-IMPROVEMENT

Accept REALITY – Not What SHOULD Be

Accept REALITY – Not What SHOULD Be

After talking to dozens of men and reading stories from hundreds of guys experiencing the pain and regret of divorce and infidelity, you start to see patterns. That's what started this whole website and podcast adventure of mine, after all.  Patterns. Me: "Hmmm......

Nobody Gives a Shit

Nobody Gives a Shit

A man finds out his wife cheats on him. His world is crushed. What he thought was up is down. Black is white. The universe just pulled the rug out from under him and he's still wondering what  in the hell just happened. Where does he go from here? He's more than...

SEO: Sexual Energy Optimization

SEO: Sexual Energy Optimization

A little background on me... I do marketing work for companies. Mostly local small/mid-size businesses. I help them push their brand, look professional, and grow their business. I do a lot of creative design work, branding, photography,...

ALPHAS/LOVERS and BETAS/PROVIDERS

ALPHAS/LOVERS and BETAS/PROVIDERS

In internet parlance, "Alpha" is an overused term meaning "A manly dude who doesn't take shit from anybody and is successful in health, work, sex, etc." You know... a real man. A "Beta" on the other hand, is the weak-willed guy who is very needy and succumbs to the...

Comfort

Comfort

  A question I recently received from a reader: "What tips do you have for a happily married person to strive to be the best they can be?" My reply: Don't get comfortable. You now how when you first started dating that you worked hard to look your best? You put on...

Being The Man is a JOB.

Being The Man is a JOB.

You go to work. Monday through Friday. You do your job. You don't complain. You don't ruffle feathers. You come in, do your tasks, clock out and leave. You've never called in sick. You don't like to attend the after-work parties or cocktail hours if you...

Lift.

Lift.

"Dude, you're freakin' jacked!" I heard these words a few days ago while lifting weights with some teenage boys at the gym. They normally see me fully clothed, but this time I took my sweatshirt off. I was sweating like a pig, just got over a virus and felt dizzy. I'm...

“Dear Betrayed Me” – Words of Wisdom From My Future Self

“Dear Betrayed Me” – Words of Wisdom From My Future Self

Dear Betrayed Me, It's me. You. From the future. I know... whoa. Weird, right? I don't normally interact with my past self (that whole time travel paradox thing), but I've been watching you. I just realized, holy shit, you're about to hit the big turning point in your...

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