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Dear DSO: How do I get my husband to be more of a Lover?

Dear DSO: How do I get my husband to be more of a Lover?

Dear DSO,I am a woman but somehow found your articles and I think they’re great! Very clearly stated why marriages fail and women cheat on “nice guys”.Would be great to see an article for women someday - how to help a husband to become more of a lover and...

Book Review: “Untrue” by Wednesday Martin

Book Review: “Untrue” by Wednesday Martin

I have just recently finished the book, "Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free" by Wednesday Martin. For a guy like me who has written on female sexuality (and how it...

Dissecting Dead Bedrooms

Dissecting Dead Bedrooms

My own personal experience and that of thousands of other men who have been married and/or dated will tell you the same thing: If your woman is crazy about you, you will know it. She will leave zero doubt. She will shower you with praise. She will have her...

Porn

Porn

Meet Eugene. Eugene will be the first to tell you that he doesn't have much luck with the ladies. In fact, for all intents and purposes, he is worthless in the mating game. For years he has watched everyone else out there being happy and getting laid. He spends month...

You can’t beat emotion. Stop trying.

You can’t beat emotion. Stop trying.

On this site, my most popular podcasts and articles are by far the ones dealing with Dead Bedrooms. The next most popular topics are about Infidelity.On the way more popular website Talk About Marriage, the two most popular "focused" topics are "Coping with...

The Post-Divorce Dating Primer

The Post-Divorce Dating Primer

You're newly divorced. You've joined a fraternity of men who spent a good chunk of their adult life with one person.... but now find themselves where they never thought they would be: Deep in the crazy world of single people. It can be surreal. Scary. Wondrous. Evil....

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