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Dear DSO: “I feel like I need a wife.”

Dear DSO: “I feel like I need a wife.”

Dear DSO: I read your book (Now What? A Guide for Men Starting Over in Life After Infidelity, Breakup and Divorce) and I totally agree that I'm one of those guys that feels like he needs a wife to feel normal. I was totally in love with my wife for the 14 years we...

Dear DSO: “My friend says my wife is cheating…”

Dear DSO: “My friend says my wife is cheating…”

Dear DSO: One of my best friends went through a really bad divorce about a year and a half ago. His wife had an affair with a guy from her work (she's a nurse). Ever since then he's been talking to me about how women cheat way more than we think and most of the women...

Dear DSO: It’s not so easy for some of us.

Dear DSO: It’s not so easy for some of us.

Dear DSO, I know you talk about having to move on and get over your wife after she cheats on you, but it's not so easy for some guys. My wife and I have been married for 17 years. We have two kids. We work together. Her dad owns the business where I work. It's a...

Interview With A Real Dad Starting Over – “Mario”

Interview With A Real Dad Starting Over – “Mario”

This is the fourth in a series of interviews with REAL dads and dudes starting over in life. From each of these stories, we can learn a great deal from each other and see that we are nowhere near alone in our quest to start over. "Mario" is your typical "nice guy who...

A Look Inside The Mind of a Cheating Wife Who Filed For Divorce

A Look Inside The Mind of a Cheating Wife Who Filed For Divorce

A woman recently posted a very candid and honest story on the "Divorce" section of the super popular website Reddit. In the post, she outlines the conditions that led her to question her marriage and eventually have an affair. This coeherent chronological...

Interview With a Real Dad Starting Over – “David”

Interview With a Real Dad Starting Over – “David”

This is the third in a series of interviews with REAL dads and dudes starting over in life. From each of these stories, we can learn a great deal from each other and see that we are nowhere near alone in our quest to start over. "David" is yet another man with a...

Interview With A Real Dad Starting Over – “William”

Interview With A Real Dad Starting Over – “William”

This is the second in a series of interviews with REAL dads and dudes starting over in life. From each of these stories, we can learn a great deal from each other and see that we are nowhere near alone in our quest to start over. "William" is the an example of a VERY...

Interview With A Real Dad Starting Over – “Pete”

Interview With A Real Dad Starting Over – “Pete”

This is a first in a series of interviews with REAL dads and dudes starting over in life. From each of these stories, we can learn a great deal from each other and see that we are nowhere near alone in our quest to start over. "Pete" is the perfect example of a guy...

RIP Anthony Bourdain

RIP Anthony Bourdain

For those of you living under a rock, Anthony Bourdain, famous chef, author and TV personality, was found dead on Friday, June 8 in his hotel room in France. He was in the middle of shooting an episode of his popular CNN television show "Parts Unknown" with his best...

My Story – Part 3 – The Phoenix Rises

My Story – Part 3 – The Phoenix Rises

Rock bottom. I had hit it. From my perspective at the time, it was very sudden. The last 10 years were a blur. Moving across state lines. Failed business. Kids. Wife's job changes. More kids. My job changes. Death. It all went by in about 10 seconds....

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