Dad Starting Over

Are You a Man Starting Over in Life?

Still married but want to hit the restart button on your relationship? Divorced and don’t want to make all the same mistakes again? Feeling lost and not sure where to turn?

In this website you’ll find hundreds of articles, podcast episodes, and access to DSO’s three books. Be sure and check out the DSO Fraternity and join hundreds of men all over the world just like you.

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Dead Bedroom Fix
Now What?
Now What?

LATEST ARTICLES

Prevent Holiday Pounds – Coach Tobias

Prevent Holiday Pounds – Coach Tobias

The time is here for parties, family dinners, and goodies around the house. This is a recipe for disaster, and if you’re not careful it could reverse your fat loss results quicker than you can say Happy Holidays! I’d like to make it easy for you to stay on track with...

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The Three Types of Married Guys

The Three Types of Married Guys

I've been doing this DSO thing for years now and by my estimation, I have chatted one-on-one with over 1,000 men... plus thousands of more online in discussion forums (including our own DSO Fraternity forums and live member meetings). After a while, you start to...

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So… I Got Fired From My Day Job

So… I Got Fired From My Day Job

My “day job” was different from most. I worked from home 90% of the time (100% during covid), and I worked for several companies at once. I was on the payroll for one company and they accounted for 75% of my pay... and then several other companies paid me by the hour...

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DSO

ABOUT “DSO”

Hi there, I’m the DSO (Dad Starting Over). I’m the founder of this website and author of the books many of you have read.  My story is not an unusual one. For those who just stumbled upon this site by chance and have no connection to the subject matter… it may seem a bit “out there”. Trust me… it’s common. For the rest of us, you came here for a reason: You need to hit the restart button on life and redefine what it means to be a MAN in today’s world. You need a boost up over the wall and you’re scrambling for any little nugget of wisdom that will help you climb that extra inch.

Why a restart? Well, maybe life just kicked you in the teeth. If you’re like me and millions of other grown men all over the world… you were  told “I want a divorce”, or worse… you discovered infidelity. Your entire worldview has changed. Your head is spinning. What you thought was innocent and comfortable is now twisted and scary. Welcome to the real world, my friend. I’ve been there and done that.

My philosophies and advice are not cookie-cutter. They’re not politically correct. They’re not always nice. But.. they work. They make sense. They get results.

Want to know more about me? A great place to start is here: